Kukhala ndi chibwenzi kungakhale chinthu chovuta kwambiri panthawi yabwino. Ngati muli ndi zofooka kuchokera kuchipatala, monga matenda a nyamakazi, mukhoza kuopa za chibwenzi, koma maubwenzi ndi chibwenzi ndi mbali ya moyo. Ndi malingaliro abwino ndi kuyandikira, chibwenzi chingakulitse moyo wanu.
Pali zinthu zikuluzikulu ziwiri zokhuzana ndi chibwenzi chomwe chimanyengerera anthu omwe ali ndi nyamakazi.
Choyamba, anthu ambiri amadandaula za kuthekera kwawo kuti apitirizebe ndi anzawo. Amakhulupirira kuti ululu ndi kutopa zidzalowa mufupipafupi momwe angathere komanso zomwe angasangalale pamodzi. Kwenikweni, nyamakazi imatembenuza kukhala Debbie Downer (kapena mzimayi wa izo). Ngati takhala owona mtima, matendawa amalowa nthawi zina. Koma, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungagwirire ndi nthawi "pansi" ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito masiku omwe mukukhala bwino. Chachiwiri, chifukwa anthu omwe ali ndi nyamakazi amaganizira kuti akhoza kukhala ndi ena, amakhulupirira kuti sali oyenerera ubale. Maganizo olakwika amatha. Ndani angafune kupita nane? Sindikusangalatsa. Ndili ndi vuto lalikulu.
Mukudzipweteka nokha mwa kulingalira mwanjira imeneyi, kuchititsa kudzidalira kwanu kosalekeza kuti mupitirizebe. Ngati mumakhalabe ndi maganizo olakwika, mudzatha kuchita chiyanjano chilichonse chomwe mwakhala nacho - ndipo ndi katundu woipa kwambiri.
Ndi kudzipatulira. Sakanizani batani lanu lamkati "kutsitsimula" ndikuyesa njira yabwino yothetsera chibwenzi ndi nyamakazi.
Shed Negency
Ngakhale zili zomveka kuti kukhala ndi ululu wosatha kumayambitsa kusokonezeka maganizo, kusayeruzika sikungakuthandizeni kukhala ndi moyo wabwino pachibwenzi. M'malo mwake, yonjezerani makhalidwe anu abwino, kuchepetsani zovuta zanu, ndikuwona chibwenzi ndi zomwe ziridi - mwayi wocheza ndi kufunafuna munthu wapadera amene angagawane nanu moyo wanu.
Izi ndizo zolinga zazikulu, koma panjira, pangani "inu" chidwi kwambiri kuti palipo ndipo musaiwale kusangalala nokha.
Musasokoneze Kulephera Kwako
Ndikofunika kuti mukhale okhulupilika kwa inu, mukakhala pachibwenzi kapena muzochitika zilizonse, chifukwa chachoncho. Simudzakhala okonzeka kuyesa kukhala wina koma yemwe muli. Pamene mukuyesera kuyesa kubisa ululu, kusokoneza chiwindi chanu, kapena kuika manja anu opunduka m'zovala zanu, pobisala, mukuwulula kuti simungavomereze chenicheni chanu .
Kulankhulana Mwachikhulupiliro
Ngati muli otseguka ndi oona mtima pazinthu zanu, mantha, zokhumudwitsa, ndi zosowa, anthu adzalumikizana ndi msinkhu wanu wowona mtima. Mungakumane ndi anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi inu, koma sakhumudwa chifukwa sadziwa zambiri ndi ululu wosatha. Awalimbikitseni kuti aphunzire zambiri za matenda, kudzera mwa inu ndi zina. Kuona mtima ndi kulankhulana bwino kumakuthandizani kuti tsiku lanu likhale losasuka.
Ganizirani zomwe mungachite
Chibwenzi chanu chidzakhala chokondweretsa kwambiri ngati mumaganizira zomwe mungachite, osati zomwe simungathe kuchita. Matenda a nyamakazi angakulepheretseni kuyenda mumtsinje wa canyon, koma mwina mungathe kuyenda galu kapena kukwera njinga yanu.
Dziwani zinthu zosangalatsa zomwe mungagawane. Ngati muphonya mwambo wapadera, pangani malo pamalo omwe amakulolani kuti mutenge mbali.
Lembani Zochita Zanu Popanda Kudzidzimangira nokha
Anthu omwe ali ndi nyamakazi nthawi zambiri amalangizidwa kuti asamangogwira ntchito . Kupweteka ndi kutopa kungatheke ngati mutapitirira. Ganizirani zomwe zidzafunike kwa inu panthawi yokonzekera kapena tsiku lokonzekera. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ulendo wapita ku zoo umakonzedwa ndipo mukudziwa kuti izi zikuphatikiza kuyenda kwambiri kuposa momwe mungathe, ganizirani njira zina. Mwinamwake mukhoza kupita ku zoo ndikuyenda mofanana ndi momwe amavomerezera.
Mwina pogwiritsa ntchito njinga ya olumala kapena magetsi angapangitse kuti ikhale yogwira, komanso yosangalatsa.
Khalanibe Otsimikiza
Mwamwayi, zolinga zabwino kwambiri sizidzachitika nthawi zonse. Padzakhala nthawi yomwe mudzakakamizidwa kuti musiye tsiku, musayambe kukambirana nawo (inde, ngakhale mutagula matikiti okwera mtengo), musakhale phwando lalikulu - ngakhale kamodzi pa zochitika za moyo monga maphunziro ndi maukwati. Ndichifukwa chakuti nyamakazi imakhala yosadziwika ndipo nthawi zina imakhala yopanda malire. Mukhoza kukhala ndi moyo wodwala nyamakazi pokhapokha mutakhala osasintha.
Phatikizani Wokondedwa Wanu monga Ubale Ukukula Kwambiri
Pamene chiyanjano chanu ndi chibwenzi chanu chimayamba kumverera ngati chiri ndi maziko olimba ndi tsogolo losangalatsa, khalani ndi mzake mnzanuyo mbali iliyonse yamoyo wodwala nyamakazi. Awalangizeni kuti mupite kwa dokotala. Aloleni iwo afunse dokotala mafunso. Awapatseni malamulo anu, akubweretseni phala lanu lotentha, panizani chikuku, khalani ndi inu pamene mukulipilira ngongole zamankhwala ndi zina zambiri. Musati muwateteze ku chenicheni, muwaphatikize iwo.