Kaya ndi abwenzi kapena abwenzi, khalani mchikondi wothandizira khansa ya m'mawere
Ngati mnzanu kapena wachibale wanu atapezeka ndi khansa ya m'mawere , simungathe kudziwa zomwe munganene kapena momwe mungathandizire. Koma, pakuyesetsa, mutumiza uthenga kuti wodwala aliyense wa khansa ya m'mawere akuyenera kumva-kuti iwe udzakhala komweko kwa iye.
Mzimayi yemwe watulukira kumene ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere amafunikira thandizo limene angapeze. Kuwonjezera pa kuthana ndi mantha omwe ali ndi matenda omwe angawopsyeze moyo, amadandaula za momwe khansa yake ya m'mawere idzakhudzira banja lake, ntchito yake, ndalama zake, ndi zina zambiri.
Amakhalanso ndi nkhawa kuti kusintha kwa thupi lake kudzakhudza momwe amamvera mumtima mwake komanso / kapena momwe mzake amamuonera.
Thandizo kuchokera kwa abwenzi ndi abwenzi lingathe kusintha kusiyana kwake pa moyo wake panthawi ya chithandizo. Pofotokoza mwachidule, kuthetsa mantha ndi kuthana ndi zotsatira za mankhwala ndizosavuta ndi chithandizo.
Thandizo tsiku ndi tsiku
Kupita kuchipatala, kukaonana ndi dokotala, komanso kuthana ndi zotsatira za mankhwala kungachititse kuti zikhale zovuta kusamalira maudindo a tsiku ndi tsiku. Malingana ndi msinkhu komanso zochitika, wokondedwa wanu angafunikire thandizo ndi mwana wake, kusamalira, kuphika, ndi kubwerera.
Poyamba, bwenzi lanu kapena wachibale wanu sangadziwe kuti ndi chithandizo chiti chomwe angafunikire. Nayi mwayi wanu woyamba kuti mukakhale naye. Limbikitsani kuti mumuthandize kupenda zomwe akuchita mu sabata ndi momwe ntchitozi zingathandizidwire ngati sakumva bwino.
Akusowa wina kuti azithandizira, makamaka pamene akukumana nawo gulu lachipatala-makamaka munthu yemwe angathe kulembapo chifukwa angakhale wofunitsitsa kuchita zimenezo. Ndipo ngati muli ndi nthawi ndipo muli ndi ufulu wopuma tsiku la mankhwala , mankhwala a chemotherapy angakhale otalika ndipo kampani ikuwapangitsa kupita mofulumira kwambiri.
Komanso, wokondedwa wanu amafuna kuti wina akhale naye pamene akugulitsa zovala ndi zinthu zina zomwe angafunike panthawi yachipatala. Kugula wig kumakhala kosavuta nthawizonse ngati mnzanu angakuuzeni zomwe zikuwoneka bwino.
Thandizo Labwino
Chofunika kwambiri ngati thandizo lothandiza ndilo, zomwe nthawi zonse zimafunika ndikulandiridwa ndi abwenzi ndi abambo kuti akhalepo kudzera mu mantha ndi kusungulumwa kwa khansa ya m'mawere. Pali nthawi yambiri yoperekera kuchipatala.
Ngati kutalika, ntchito, kapena moyo wazinthu sizikuloledwa kukhalapo pamunthu, kuimbira foni ndi maulendo a Skype-kuchokera kwa wina yemwe amatha kumvetsera, osati kuweruza, ndi kupereka chitonthozo ndi chilimbikitso-akhoza kupanga kusiyana kwa wina amene akuchiritsidwa .
Ndinali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi munthu wotere pa nthawi yoyamba ya khansa yoyamba. Mnzanga, Joanne, anandiimbira tsiku lililonse kwa miyezi inayi, kuchokera kuchipatala kuti ndipitirize kuchiritsa. Ngati ndikumva ngati ndikuyankhula, amamvetsera ngati ndikufunikira kulankhula. Ngati sindimamva ngati ndikuyankhula, amatha kunena, "Chabwino, ndikuitana mawa."
Ndipo pali njira zambiri zoti mukakhale kutali. Makhadi osangalatsa ndi malemba, omwe amatumizidwa mlungu uliwonse, ndiwowonjezera mzimu. Mphatso zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa chithandizo, monga bukhu, nthawizonse amalandiridwa, nayonso.
Ngati mumakhala kapena mumagwirira ntchito, pemphani mnzanu chakudya chamasana, filimu, kapena zinthu zina zosangalatsa zomwe ndizithawa ku khansa zonse. Ngati sakumva bwino, khalani naye kunyumba, kaya muwonere kanema, kusewera masewera ena, kapena kuchita chilichonse chimene ali nacho mphamvu. Kukhala kumeneko kupyolera mu khansa ya abwenzi sikophweka, koma kukhala kumeneko kumapangitsa kuti mavuto ake akhale ophweka.