Mmene Mungakhalire Mkazi Wochuluka
Taoism ndi chikhalidwe chauzimu chomwe chimaphatikiza chilakolako chathu cha kugonana ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito m'matupi athu ngati mphamvu yakuchiritsa ndi kukula kwauzimu. Chilakolako ndi gawo lopindulitsa komanso lopindulitsa pazochitika zathu. A Taoist amaganiza za chikhumbo, chotchedwa mphamvu yogonana kapena jing chi, monga gawo la moyo wathu, kapena chi. Kukhala wokondwa ndi kukhala wodzaza ndi chi. Mawu a Chingerezi akuti "chikhumbo" kapena "chilakolako" amasonyeza kukhumba ndi kukhudzika komwe kumaphatikizapo kugonana, koma amasonyezanso maganizo athu amphamvu pa moyo.
Pamene tili okondwa ndi chilichonse - banja lathu, ntchito yathu, uzimu wathu, chinthu chofunika kwambiri - timayesetsa kuchita izi. Chilakolako chathu ndicho chomwe chimatipangitsa kuchitapo kanthu ndipo potsirizira pake ndicho chomwe chimatipatsa chimwemwe. Ife tiri okondwa pa zinthu zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa ife.
Nthawi zambiri timalankhula za "kutengeka" ngati kuti tikugonjetsedwa ndi makhalidwe oipa, ziwanda (taonani nyanga). Koma mphamvu zamphamvu zowukitsa ndizofunikira kwa umunthu wathu. Osati, monga oganiza zachipembedzo odziletsa omwe aphunzitsa, mphamvu yakuda yomwe imatilekanitsa ife ndi Mulungu, koma ndicho chofunikira cha zomwe zingatikakamize ife kukhala moyo wathanzi ndi wopindulitsa. Ndizoona kuti mphamvu zogonana ndi zamphamvu kwambiri zomwe zachititsa kuti zipembedzo zazikuluzikulu zizilamulira ndikuletsa khalidwe la kugonana, makamaka khalidwe la amayi. Kubwezeretsanso kugwirizana kwathu ndi chikhumbo chathu ndi gawo la kubwezeretsa mphamvu zathu.
Mukadzutsa chilakolako chanu, kapena mphamvu za kugonana, Chikondi cha Machiritso, monga momwe aphunzitsidwa ndi mtsogoleri wotchuka wa Taoist, Mantak Chia, angakuphunzitseni momwe mungatsogolere ndikukonza mphamvu zanu zogonana kuti mupindule ndi mphatso zawo.
Ngakhale kuti dziko lathu lamakono liri ndi chidziwitso chokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi dzanja limodzi ndi kugwiritsira ntchito molakwika za kugonana pa wina, Chikondi cha Machiritso chimapereka nzeru zakubadwa za zaka zikwi zambiri za momwe tingakhalire mthupi lathu ngati zogonana ndikugwiritsa ntchito chilakolako chathu khalani anthu omwe tikufuna kukhala.
Zinsinsi za kugonana kwa Taoist
Taoism ndi maziko a filosofi ndi zamankhwala zachi China.
Ndi dongosolo lonse lathupi ndi lauzimu lomwe limathandiza anthu kuti akwaniritse zomwe angathe. N'kutheka kuti dzikoli ndilo maziko a mankhwala a Chinese Traditional Medicine , omwe amaphatikizapo mankhwala , mankhwala a zitsamba, zakudya zabwino, kusinkhasinkha, kusinkhasinkha mwamphamvu kotchedwa Chi Kung (kutchulidwa "chee kong"), ndi chida cha nkhondo chotchedwa Tai Chi Chuan ( "tie chee chwan"). Njira ya Universal Tao inakhazikitsidwa ndi Mantak Chia kuphunzitsa Taoist kusinkhasinkha ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira zolimbitsa thupi ndi kuonjezera ndikukonzanso mphamvu zake, kapena chi ("chee"). Chizolowezi chogonana, kapena Chikondi Chachiritso, ndi gawo lofunikira la dongosolo lino.
"Chi," mawu achi Chinese oti moyo wamphamvu, ndi mphamvu mkati mwa matupi athu komanso m'chilengedwe chonse chomwe chimapangitsa moyo. Mawu omwewo ali ndi matembenuzidwe ambiri, monga mphamvu, mpweya, mpweya, mphepo, kapena chofunika kwambiri. Pali zikhalidwe 49 kuzungulira dziko lapansi zomwe zimamvetsa chiganizo cha chi mu mtundu wina; Zitsanzo ndi Ki (Chijapani), Prana (Sanskrit), Mawulu (Tibetan), Neyatoneyah (Lakota Sioux), Num (Kalahari Kung), ndi Ruach (Chihebri).
"Chikhalidwe chakumadzulo" ndi mankhwala a allopathic , omwe nthawi zambiri amatchedwa kuti Azungu kapena mankhwala ochiritsira, ndi chimodzi mwa zikhalidwe zochepa zomwe sizili ndi lingaliro lofanana, ngakhale kuti limadziwa mphamvu ya mphamvu pa maselo.
Mankhwala achizungu amathandiza kwambiri kuchiza matenda oopsa ndi kuvulala koopsa. Komabe, ndikukhulupirira kuti, mbali imodzi, kulibe kwa lingaliro ili la "mphamvu ya moyo" lomwe limachepetsa mphamvu yake yothetsera matenda osatha . Western mankhwala akuyamba kuzindikira zomwe Taoist adziwa kwa zaka zoposa 2,000, kuti kutsogolera kutuluka kwa mphamvu yathu ya moyo, chi, kungatithandize kukhala ndi thanzi labwino.
Kugwiritsa Ntchito ndi Kupititsa Mphamvu Zanu
Mu Multi-Orgasmic Woman mungaphunzire kugwiritsira ntchito ndondomeko yanu ndi mpweya wanu kuti mutsegule ndi kuyendetsa mphamvu zanu; Chizolowezi chimenechi chimatchedwa Chi Kung.
Zimaphatikizapo kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso kayendedwe kosavuta kuti pakhale kuyenda kwa chi. Zogwiritsidwa ntchito ku China komanso tsopano zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ku United States, chi Kung ndi njira yakale komanso yothandiza pazinthu zambiri zaumoyo. Nthawi zambiri ndimakonda kunena za Chiwerewere cha Chiwopsezo cha Chiwerewere monga "Chi Kung kwa chipinda chogona."
Mukamadziwa chi, mumapeza kuti n'kosavuta kuti muzindikire. Yesani kuchita zosavuta izi. Muzitsuka mwamphamvu manja anu kufikira mutatentha. Tsopano pang'onopang'ono mulekanitse manja anu mpaka atatsala pang'ono kutha. Muyenera kumverera "mpikisano" wa mpweya pakati pa iwo omwe angamve ngati kuthamanga, kutentha, kapena kuyimba. Chisoni ichi ndi chi kudutsa pakati pa manja anu.
Mu miyambo yonse yosinkhasinkha miyambo ikukhazikika ndi kuganizira malingaliro. Machiritso a machiritso a machiritso amachititsa izi poyang'ana kayendetsedwe ka chi. Choyambiriracho chimachokera pakufalitsa chi kupyolera mu dera la thupi lotchedwa Microcosmic Orbit, lomwe liri ngati mphamvu yamagetsi mu thupi. The Microcosmic Orbit ikuyenda kuchokera mu msana wanu mpaka msana wanu ku ubongo (Back Channel) ndiyeno kubwerera kutsogolo kwa thupi lanu pakati pa midzi (Front Channel). Pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu, mukhoza kutsogoloza msana pamene mukupuma ndi kuwalola kuti "agwe" pansi pa chingwe chakumbuyo kupita pamimba pamene mukupuma.
Kugwiritsa Ntchito Mphamvu Zanu Zogonana
Pamene mukumva bwino ndikusuntha chi, mumatha kusuntha mphamvu zanu zogonana, kapena jing chi, mumsewu womwewo. Kukwanitsa kukulitsa ndi kusuntha mphamvu zanu zogonana ndi zomwe zimakulolani kuti muwonjezere zosangalatsa zanu ndi kulimbitsa ziwalo zanu zamasewera, ziribe kanthu zomwe muli nazo panopa zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Kumathandizanso kuti musinthe mphamvu zanu za kugonana mu chi, kapena mphamvu ya moyo, zomwe zingakupatseni mphamvu zambiri kuchokera kuchipinda pamene mukukhala moyo wanu padziko lapansi. Ndipo pamene chi chanu chiri champhamvu ndipo cholinga chanu chikuwonekera, chi chanu chimasandulika kukhala mphamvu ya uzimu kapena shen.
Chikondi cha Machiritso amakhala olemera komanso amphamvu kuti azichita maola ambiri tsiku lililonse, koma amatha kukhala olimba mokwanira kuti akulimbikitseni kapena kuthandizira kuthetsa nkhawa m'maganizo. Zogonana poyamba zimatenga nthawi kuti zimvetsetse ndikumverera m'thupi lanu, koma zimatha kuphatikizidwa mosakanikirana ndi kukonda chikondi ndi zotsatira zodabwitsa: zosangalatsa, chibwenzi, ndi kunjenjemera kusiyana ndi kale lonse.
Mchitidwe wa Taoist umapereka njira yowunikira kuti apeze ndikugwirizanitsa mphamvu ziwiri zochiritsa kwambiri padziko lapansi: chikondi chenicheni ndi mphamvu yogonana. Zikhalidwezi zingakulepheretseni kukondweretsa ndikupangitsani thupi lanu ndi moyo wanu.
Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD. ndi dokotala wamakhalidwe a banja omwe amadziwika bwino ndi mankhwala othandizira komanso umoyo wa amayi ndi kugonana. Mgwirizano wa Multi-Orgasmic Couple amakhala kumpoto kwa California ndi mwamuna wake ndi ana atatu.
Master Mantak Chia ndi mphunzitsi wodziwika kwambiri padziko lonse wazithunzi za Taoist, kuchokera ku Tai Chi kupita ku Taoist zogonana. Iye ndi mlembi wa ogulitsa kwambiri Multi-Orgasmic Man ndi Multi-Orgasmic Couple komanso zolemba zozizwitsa za Taoist Zinsinsi za Chikondi ndi Chikondi Chochiritsa kupyolera mu Tao. Iye amakhala ku Thailand ndipo amaphunzitsa ku United States ndi padziko lonse lapansi.