Njira zina zaubereki zimayambitsa mavuto ambiri kuposa momwe amathetsera!
Pali njira zambiri zabwino zobereka mwana wokhala ndi autism . Ndipo njira zingapo zopanda mantha. Pamene muli ndi zosowa zapadera, sibwino nthawi zonse kumangopita ndi zomwe zimamva zachirengedwe. Mungafunikire kusintha kalembedwe ka makolo anu kuti mukwaniritse zovuta ndi zovuta za mwana wanu. Zonse zomwe zanenedwa, apa pali zisanu ndi chimodzi zoyamba zobadwira machitidwe ndi bwino kupewa pamene mukulerera mwana pa autism spectrum.
Helikopita Kulera
Makolo a helikopita amayenda pamwamba pa ana awo, kuyang'ana ndi kuchitapo kanthu pazochitika zawo zonse. Amadumphira kuti athandize pamene vuto likuwonekera pamapeto; iwo amalowerera kuti ayendetse njira iliyonse; iwo amaumirira kuti azisamalira ana awo. Kubadwa kwa helikopita sikuli koyenera kwa mwana aliyense, chifukwa kumapanga ufulu wodzilamulira komanso kudzikonda kwambiri. Makolo a ana omwe ali ndi autism amakhala pafupi ndi ana aamuna, chifukwa amadandaula kuti mwana wawo ali ndi autism adzakumana ndi mavuto omwe sangakwanitse - ndipo, ndithudi, ndizotheka. Koma ngati kubala kwa helikopita kumapangitsa kuti anawo azikula, ganizirani zomwe zimachitikira ana omwe ali ndi autism. Osakhoza kuphunzira mwa kuwona ndi chitsanzo, ana omwe ali ndi autism ayenera kuphunzira kudzera mwachindunji malangizo - ndi kuchita. Mukayamba kuchita ntchito yawo, mukukana mwana wanu kuti amvetse zomwe akufunikira, kapena kuti apeze vuto la kuyesa, chisangalalo cha kupambana, kapena maphunziro omwe akuphatikizapo kulephera.
Makolo Othandizira
Mayi aliyense amene wakhala mbali ya mayi ndi mayi anga amadziwa zonse zokhudza kukakamiza makolo. Ndi ndani yemwe mwana wamphongo wophunzitsidwa poyamba? Ananena mawu oyambirira? Kodi ndikutenga maphunziro ambiri, kuphunzira kuvina kapena kuimba, kusewera mpira wa peewee, kapena kuphunzira Chinese? Mukakhala ndi mwana ndi autism, zingakhale zovuta kuti musamve kuti mwana wanu akutsalira.
Mukamagula mpikisano wokhala ndi mpikisano, muli otsimikiza kuti mwana wanu sangathe kutero - ndipo kuti monga kholo, mwinamwake mukulakwa. Monga momwe mungaganizire, zotsatira zake ndikumverera kuti inu kapena mwana wanu mulibe bwino. Zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndi mwana yemwe ali ndi autism sizingakhale zoonekeratu, koma zenizeni.
Kulekerera Makolo Omanja
Makolo ena amakhulupirira kuti mwana wawo ayenera kuloledwa kutsatira zofuna zake komanso zofuna zake popanda kusokoneza makolo. Izi zimagwira bwino ana ena omwe amadziyendetsa okha, amadzikonda okha, ndipo amafunitsitsa kuyanjana ndi ena. Sikuti, chabwino, chabwino kwambiri cholera mwana ndi autism. Ngakhale kuti mwana aliyense amafunikira komanso akuyenerera "nthawi" pansi, ana omwe ali ndi autism amafunikiradi kuyankhulana ndi makolo. Chifukwa, nthawi zambiri, ana omwe ali ndi autism amafunikira thandizo lanu kuti aphunzire kudziyerekezera , kucheza, kukambirana, kufunsa mafunso, ndi kufufuza dziko lapansi. Pokhapokha munthu wina woti awathandize kumanga luso limeneli, ana omwe ali ndi autism angakhale ochepa kwambiri komanso odzikonda - osakwanitsa kuchita nawo ntchito padziko lonse lapansi.
Wokwanira (Tiger) Parenting
Inde, ana ena amakula bwino ndi makolo omwe amatsindika molunjika A, ochita masewera apamwamba, galamala yabwino, ndi machitidwe abwino a tebulo.
Ana amenewo sangathe kukhala autistic. Chowonadi n'chakuti ana omwe ali ndi autism, ngakhale kuti angathe kukhala ndi mphamvu zambiri, akhoza kukhala ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri ndi zoyembekeza zambiri za ana. Maluso awo omveka angasokonezedwe, kupanga maphunzilo apamwamba ndi galamala mwangwiro zosavuta kukwaniritsa. Angakhale ndi zovuta kuti azitha kuyanjana, ndikupanga masewera olimba kwambiri. Inde, ndikofunika kukhala ndi ziyembekezo zazikulu - koma zikhale zoyembekezeka kwambiri, ndipo iwe ndi mwana wanu muli ndi misonzi ndi kukhumudwa.
Kulera Makolo Ololeza
Monga kholo la mwana yemwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera, mungamve kuti mwana wanu ayenera kupuma - 100% nthawi.
Kodi mungathe bwanji kuti mwana yemwe ali ndi autism apange tebulo? kupanga bedi lake? phunzirani kudziletsa? siyani kumupha mlongo wake? Autism imapangitsa zinthu zina kukhala zovuta, koma pafupifupi nthawi zonse ana omwe ali ndi autism amatha kuchita zambiri - ngati akufunsidwa ndikulimbikitsidwa kuchita zimenezo. Mukamapanga bar, kapena kupereka mwana wanu autism mwambo wawung'ono, mukuwunikira kwambiri kuti amvetse kapena azitsatira zoyembekeza zapamwamba. Kumvetsa mavuto a mwana wanu ndi chinthu chimodzi; Kuganiza kuti mwana wanu sakuzindikira ndi chinthu chosiyana kwambiri.
Kusamalidwa Kwachibadwidwe
Popeza adadzuka m'mawa uno, sukulu yanu yoyamba ndi autism yakhala ndi maola asanu ochita maola ola limodzi, ola limodzi ndi mauthenga ndi mankhwala, maola awiri a chithandizo chothandizira makolo, ndi maola anayi a sukulu. Atangogona tulo tofa nato, mumalumphira pa intaneti kuti mukapezenso kalasi ina, pulogalamu, ntchito kapena zowonjezera zowonjezera. Pokhala ndi zambiri, mwana wanu ali ndi autism alibe mwayi wakuchita zomwe waphunzira, kukomana ndi kudziwana ndi mwana wina, kapena kungochita zomwe ana amachita: kusewera! M'malo mofufuza mwachangu ndikuchita nawo chithandizo ndi ntchito, ganizirani kuti mwina maola angapo patsiku la mwana wodekha, wosasamala ndi mwana wanu akhoza kukhala chinthu chofunikira kuti mwana wanu akule ndikukula.