Autism ndi yovuta; Nazi zida zina zothana nazo.
Kafukufuku wopangidwa ku yunivesite ya North Carolina akusonyeza kuti "Amayi a ana omwe ali ndi autism angakhale ovuta kuvutika maganizo ngati amadzimva kuti ali ndi udindo chifukwa cha vuto la mwana wawo ...". Amayi 50 omwe ali ndi ana omwe ali ndi autism anali ndi nkhawa zambiri, poyerekeza ndi 15% mpaka 21% m'magulu ena. Amayi osakwatira a ana olumala amapezeka kuti ali pachiopsezo chovutika maganizo kusiyana ndi amayi omwe amakhala ndi mnzawo.
N'chifukwa chiyani Amayi a Autistic Kids Amakhala Oposa Kuvutika Maganizo?
Dr. Dan Gottlieb wa sitima ya NPR ya Philadelphia YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA MITU YA NKHANI YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA Pofotokoza momveka bwino, adanena kuti amayi omwe amamva kuti sangathe kuchita zokwanira kwa mwana wawo ndi autism akhoza kuvutika maganizo.
Ndithudi, kumverera koteroko kosakhala kosakwanira kungayambitse kuvutika maganizo. Ndipo nthawi zina, kupereka uphungu kwa amayi kumathandiza kwambiri.
Koma ngakhale kuti kudzimva kukhala wolakwa ndi kusakwanira kwenikweni kumasewera kwa makolo ambiri, pali zambiri pa nkhaniyo. Mabanja, ngakhale omwe ali ndi ana kumapeto kwa autism spectrum, kuthana ndi zina zambiri zofunika zomwe zingayambitse, makamaka, kukhumudwa, mkwiyo, kukwiya, nkhawa ndi zina. Mwachitsanzo:
- Makolo amene akudziŵa kuti autism akukumana nawo akukumana ndi kusowa kwa ziyembekezo zawo zambiri za kukhala kholo. Pa nthawi yomweyi, akuthawa pa "gulu la makolo" lomwe lingakhale likuwathandiza - chilichonse chotsatizana ndi masewera a playdates ndi chisamaliro cha ana ndi oyandikana nawo pophunzitsa timu ya mpira. Ndizo zokongoletsedwa zokondweretsa.
- Zingakhale zovuta kuchita zochitika zogwirizana ndi mwana pa autism spectrum. Kudzipatula kumadziwika kuti kumabweretsa mavuto.
- Zingakhale zodula kuchiza mwana pa autism spectrum. Mabanja ambiri amapita ku ngongole kuti adziwe mankhwala omwe salipidwa ndi inshuwaransi. Izi zingayambitse nkhawa, kupanikizika, ndi mkwiyo.
- Kawirikawiri, amayi omwe ali ndi ana pa autism amawombera kusiya ntchito zomwe amapeza (komanso ndalama zomwe amafunikira kapena zofuna) kuti asamalire mwanayo. Izi zingachititse kuvutika maganizo.
- Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta komanso amakhalabe maso usiku wonse. Kutopa kungachititse kuvutika maganizo.
- Makolo omwe amayenera kumenyana ndi zigawo za sukulu ndi mabungwe a thanzi labwino m'maganizo a mtundu uliwonse wa mautumiki oyenerera amakhala otsimikizika kuti akhonza kukambirana ndi zinthu zomwe sizikuvomerezeka, koma zomwe siziwathandiza. Izi ndizosautsa.
- Pamene ana omwe ali ndi autism amakula, makolo nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi "kupuma pantchito" omwe ali ndi udindo waumwini komanso wachuma kwa mwana wamkulu yemwe amadalira pazinthu zonse. Izi zingakhale zovuta kwambiri.
Mwachidule, kukhala ndi mwana ndi autism kungathe kuchititsa kuvutika maganizo, koma zifukwa zambiri ndi zovuta. Zilibe kanthu kuti kholo limakhala ndi chiyembekezo chotani, mwina sangathe kusangalala pamene akutopa, kuwonongeka, ndi kudzipatula.
Kulimbana ndi Kusokonezeka Kwambiri kwa Autism
Kodi makolo ayenera kuchita chiyani pakakhala zovuta zambiri? Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungachite. Ngakhale kuti palibe chomwe chingasinthe chowonadi kuti autism ali pano, ambiri angathandize makolo kuthana ndi mavuto ndi mavuto.
- Pezani chithandizo pakati pa makolo oganiza ngati ana a autism.
- Fufuzani chisamaliro, kuti inu ndi mnzanuyo muthake palimodzi kuti mupite bwino.
- Fufuzani thandizo la akatswiri kuchokera kwa wothandizidwa ndi chidziwitso kugwira ntchito ndi mabanja omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera.
- Yesani kufalitsa kuti muthetse nkhawa yanu.
- Lembetsani ndalama zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito posankha mankhwala osokoneza bongo, omwe ali ndi autism.
Mwina chofunikira koposa, dziwani kuti mukuchita zabwino zomwe mungathe kwa mwana wanu ndi autism. M'malo modzizunza nokha ndi "bwanji ngati," tengani kamphindi kuti muzisangalala ndi mwana wanu.
Zotsatira:
Mbiri yachisokonezo kwa amayi ndi abambo a ana omwe ali ndi autism. Psychol Rep. 1992 Dec; 71 (3 Pt 2): 1272-4.
Kusokonezeka maganizo mwa amayi ndi abambo a ana okhala ndi chilema. Journal of Research Intelligence Disability Research, Voliyumu 45, Nambala 6, December 2001, pp. 535-543 (9).
Zinthu zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi nkhawa mwa amayi a ana omwe ali ndi autism. Autism, Vol. 9, No. 4, 416-427 (2005).