Zedi, izo zikuwopsya kutaya maso anu. Zimasintha chirichonse. Ndakhalapo komweko, ndikukumana ndi zomwezo m'zaka zaunyamata wanga.
Chimene ndikudziwa tsopano ndikugawana pano, ndi njira zothandizira anthu kuganizira zolinganiza njira yopita ku zolinga zawo ngakhale ndi vuto lowonetsa.
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri zosawonongeka ndikuti simumasowa kudziwa momwe mungakhalire ndi mphamvu yamakono yomwe ingakope zofuna zanu pamoyo wanu.
Ziribe kanthu chomwe chachititsa kuti muwonongeke ; Ndi momwe mumasinthira kubwerera ku radar kumene mukufuna kukhala.
Choyamba, zindikirani momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito mau kapena masomphenya. Kwa ambiri a ife, mawu awiriwa amveka chimodzimodzi.
Koma, ngati ife mwadala timapanga kusiyana pakati pa maganizo ndi maonekedwe athu, ndipo mawu oti 'masomphenya' angatanthauzenso kukhala ndi malingaliro oonekera mkati mwa zolinga zamtsogolo, ntchito, kapena kutengapo malingaliro omwe amatipatsa ife chidaliro chowona chinachake chikugwira ntchito mmiyoyo yathu - ndiye uwu ndi kusiyana kwakukulu kumene masomphenya akukhala njira yowopsya kuti tibwererenso ku radar ya moyo.
Muli ndi zomwe mungatchule kuti 'kulemala' ngati zenizeni koma izi sizimapangitsa kuti maganizo anu ndi olumala maganizo anu - pokhapokha mutasowa masomphenya ndi kunyalanyaza mfundo zothandiza!
Njira yoyamba: Yankhulani EYA Kusakayikira
Kulimbika kumakula pakati pathu tonse pamene tikunena kuti inde ku zovuta zambiri.
Kukhala ndi chidaliro chofikira zinthu zomwe mukufunadi kuzikwaniritsa m'moyo wanu sizikutanthauza kuti mukudikirira nthawi yoyenera pamene mantha akusiya nokha, kutanthawuza kutenga mantha omwewo ndi inu ndikuchita.
Kukhala wokonzeka kulumphira mu moyo kachiwiri ndikuthamanga kwamphamvu kwa masomphenya omwe amatsatiridwa ndi radar ya ena.
Gawo 2: Lembani Mpaka Mpaka Mulipanga
Iyi ndi njira yamphamvu kwambiri yophunzitsira malingaliro anu ndi zochita zanu monga mphunzitsi wanu wa moyo . Kawirikawiri timatha kuyima patsogolo chifukwa cha kudzikonda.
Muyenera kutsutsa ndondomeko yanu yovuta kwambiri, inunso, makamaka tsopano ngati maso akuwonongeka musanapangitse ena kuti adziwe zomwe mungathe. Ndi masomphenya amkati, yikani zojambula zanu.
Yesani izi: mudzidziwitse nokha kwa munthu watsopano amene mukufuna kumuyankhulana naye. Zingakhale zikusowa maganizo pa intaneti kapena ntchito yatsopano.
Khalani apamwamba komabe muli aulemu, osangalatsa komanso olenga. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudziyika nokha pa radar popanda kukhala pushy. Mukungofuna kuunikira podziwa kuti mulipo ndipo mumawalola kuona kuti mulipo.
Njira 3: Sungani Masomphenya Anu Oyera
Onani mmene mungagwiritsire ntchito vuto lanu lamoyo kuti muike patsogolo ndi zolinga zanu. Pamene mutengeka molimba mtima muzosadziwika ndizo ngati mukuyika dongosolo ndi kampani yomwe simunayambe muchitapo kanthu.
Kodi mumawatcha mphindi zisanu ndi zisanu kuti muone ngati ali ndi uthenga wanu? Ayi, bola ngati mutumiza chizindikiro choyera, mumadalira ndikuyembekeza: masomphenya anu amakhala omveka bwino.
Njira 4: Palibe Chofunika Kuwunika Mapendetsedwe Anu
Molimba mtima mwadziika pa radar ya munthu - tsopano dikirani.
Nthawi ndi nthawi. Pitirirani ndi moyo ndipo musataye mtima. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri chimene mwakwaniritsa kale ndikumayang'ana mantha anu ndipo mudatengapo mphoto.
Chizindikiro chomwe mwawatumizira chikhoza kuwasamalira kapena kutaya mawonekedwe awo. Nthawi ndi providence adzasankha - kapena angakutumizeni mu njira ina yopindulitsa.
Njira 5: Kukonzanso Masomphenya Anu
Ngati m'kupita kwanthawi simungapeze yankho limene mukulilakalaka, sizomwe mukulephera. Ndi nthawi yokonzanso masomphenya anu.
Poyamba, mwachibadwa mumakhumudwa koma, ngati mungathe, muwone ngati mukukonza bwino zolinga zanu.
Monga momwe mungasinthire kujambula pa wailesi yanu, cholinga chanu ndi kukhalabe ndi moyo wautali komanso osalola kuti kukhumudwa kutseke masomphenya anu.
Nthawi yotsatira mukamaganiza kuti mwaphonya mwayi, yikani njira yanu yatsopano yowonongeka pochita zinthu zina zowonjezereka mukamasintha kuti mukhale 'pamalo oyenera' pa nthawi yoyenera.
Ndikofunika kuyesa kachiwiri, pokhala wolimbikira ndikudziwa kuti, posakhalitsa kapena mtsogolomu, uyenera kukhala pa radar ya iwo amene adzakuwonani inu akuwonekera kuchokera mu buluu, ndipo adzadabwa chifukwa chiyani padziko lapansi iwo anali ' Ndakuwonani inu kale.