Ngakhale kuti makolo ena amakhumudwa chifukwa chakuti ana awo amatha maola ambiri akugona m'chipinda chosambira asanapite panyumba, makolo ena sangathe kumuthandiza kuti asambe-ngakhale atakhala woipa. Kuchita ndi mwana yemwe akukana kusamba akhoza kunyalanyaza ndi kusokoneza makolo.
Pambuyo pa zonse, simungathe kukakamiza mwana wanu kuti alowe musamba ngati sakufuna.
Koma, ngati samasamba nthawi zonse, akhoza kukumana ndi mavuto aakulu. Choncho musanapange chisankho chothandizira, ndi bwino kulingalira chifukwa chomwe amachitira zosakhudzidwa ndi mwana wanu.
Kusadziwa Chidziwitso
Achinyamata ena samangozindikira kufunika kokasamba. Wachinyamata wanu sangadziwe kuti atatha msinkhu, adzalandira thukuta komanso akumwa ngati sakusamba.
Zingakhale zovuta kwa achinyamata ena kuti asinthe kusintha mathupi awo monga akulu, osati ana. Choncho ngakhale kuti sizinali vuto kuti asambe kusamba ali ndi zaka 7, ali ndi zaka 13, akhoza kusonyeza fungo la thupi ngati sasamba nthawi zonse. Ngakhale achinyamata omwe amasamba nthawi zina samadziwa kufunika kokhala sopo kapena kutsuka tsitsi lawo.
Ngati mukukayikira kuti mwana wanu sakufuna kutsuka zimayambira chifukwa chosowa chidziwitso, ndi chizindikiro choti mumayenera kunena za kutha msinkhu. Kambiranani mmene thupi limasinthira, monga kutaya thukuta komanso kutuluka kwa tsitsi, kumatanthauza kusamba tsiku ndi tsiku n'kofunika.
Fotokozerani kwa mwana wanu kuti mabakiteriya a khungu amadyetsa thukuta, zomwe zimabweretsa fungo la thupi. Kutsuka thupi lake kumuthandiza kukhalabe woyera ndi kununkhira mwatsopano.
Mnyamata Wanu Ali ndi Zinthu Zofunika Kuzichita
Achinyamata ambiri amatha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yawo yopuma kusewera masewera a pakompyuta kapena kucheza ndi anzawo, m'malo modandaula za nkhani za ukhondo.
Kusamba kungamve ngati kumafika m'njira ya zinthu zina zomwe akufunadi kuchita.
Achinyamata amakhalanso okonda kubwezeretsa. Choncho wachinyamata angatsutse kuti azisamba pambuyo pa sukulu. Komano, pambuyo pa sukulu, akhoza kunena kuti adzowa atatha kudya. Koma pamene nthawi yogona ikuyandikira , akhoza kunena kuti adzawa m'mawa.
Ngati kunyalanyaza kwa msinkhu wanu kumakhala kochokera ku ulesi, mungafunikire kuthana ndi vuto ngati udindo uliwonse. Ikani malire ndipo perekani zotsatira.
Matenda Aumphawi Kapena Kutha Kuzindikira
Nthaŵi zina, kukana kusamba kungagwirizanitsidwe ndi mitundu yina ya matenda a maganizo. Mwachitsanzo, achinyamata omwe akuvutika maganizo kwambiri sangakhale ndi chidwi ndi mphamvu kuti asambe. Koma kusamba si vuto lokha lomwe iwo amakumana nawo-kuvutika maganizo kungayambitsenso mavuto a maphunziro ndi aumunthu.
Nthaŵi zina, zochitika zoopsa zingathe kusokoneza nkhani za ukhondo. Mnyamata yemwe wakhala akuzunzidwa mwachipongwe, mwachitsanzo, angakane kusamba chifukwa sakufuna kuti wozunza amufikire. Koma, kumbukirani kuti kusamba kwakukulu kungakhalenso chizindikiro cha kugwiriridwa.
Achinyamata omwe ali ndi zilema zachitukuko kapena kuchedwa kwadzidzidzi akhoza kuthana ndi vuto la ukhondo.
Wachinyamata sangamvetse kufunikira kwa kuwonetsa kapena angavutike kukumbukira njira zomwe akuyenera kuchita posamalira thanzi lake.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti kunyalanyaza kwa msinkhu wanu kungayambe chifukwa cha matenda aumphawi, funsani akatswiri othandizira. Lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu wachinyamata kapena kuonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Mmene Mungayankhulire Osauka Mwachindunji
Kulankhula ndi achinyamata za nkhani za ukhondo kungakhale nkhani yovuta. Ndipo ngati simusamala za momwe mumalankhulira nkhaniyi, mwana wanu akhoza kukulira.
Musagwiritse ntchito malingaliro achinyengo omwe mwana wanu akukumana nawo oipa kapena tsitsi lake. Kusiya zonyansa m'chipinda chake kapena kuchita nthabwala za fungo lake sizingakhale zothandiza.
M'malo mwake, tchulani zomwe mwaziwona mwachindunji. Nenani chinachake chonga, "Tsitsi lanu likuwoneka wochuluka lero. Muyenera kusamba, "kapena" Muli ndi fungo la thupi. Izi zimandiuza kuti muyenera kusamba. "
Pamene achinyamata ena amatha kukhala osayeruzika ndikukangana, "Iyayi sindikutero." Ena akhoza kuchita manyazi ndikuchitapo kanthu pakunena chinachake chomwe chimatanthauza, " Iwe umamva fungo nthawi zonse."
Fotokozerani zovuta zanu mwa kunena zinthu monga, "Ndikuwopa ana ena akuwona kuti simukuwombera," kapena "Sindikufuna kuti musankhidwe chifukwa mumamva fungo loipa."
Tchulani Zovuta Zowonjezereka Zowonongeka ndi Zopanda Thanzi
Fotokozerani zomwe mukuziwona ndikugawana mavuto omwe angabwere chifukwa cha ukhondo. Nenani chinachake chonga, "Inu simunatenge masiku atatu. Izo sizabwino. "
Ukhondo wathanzi ungayambitse matenda osiyanasiyana, komanso mavuto amtundu. Achinyamata osasamba akhoza kukhala pachiopsezo cha mtundu wina wa matenda a khungu.
Mtsikana wodetsedwa angakhale ndi vuto kupanga-ndi kusunga-abwenzi. Angathe kunyozedwa kapena kuzunzidwa chifukwa chosayera. Ndipo zikhoza kutenga vuto lalikulu pa kudzidalira kwake.
Nkhani Zina Za Ukhondo Zomwe Mungayankhe
Achinyamata amene amakana kusamba nthawi zambiri amawonanso zina za ukhondo. Kambiranani ndi mwana wanu za kufunikira kovala zovala zoyera. Kusintha zovala zake atatha kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikubvala zovala zatsopano atagona.
Limbikitsani mwana wanu kuti azivala zakuda. Muloleni iye asankhe mtundu umene angafune kuvala ngati izo zimamuthandiza kuti azigwiritse ntchito nthawi zambiri.
Maulendo opweteka angakhalenso vuto kwa achinyamata, makamaka achinyamata othamanga. Limbikitsani mwana wanu kuti asambe mapazi ake mumsamba ndiyeno, dikirani mpaka mapazi ake atume asanamange masokosi ake ndi nsapato. Kuvala masokosi a thonje ndi nsapato zina zingathandizenso.
Mpweya woipa ungakhalenso vuto. Koma chofunika kwambiri, achinyamata omwe samasamalira thanzi lawo amatha kudziika okha pangozi ya mavuto owonongeka dzino lawo.
Yakhazikitsa Malamulo Oyera
Muuzeni mwana wanuyo ayenera kusamba tsiku lililonse-monga momwe akufunikira kugwira ntchito zapakhomo ndi kumaliza ntchito yake ya kusukulu. Ngati amasamalira maudindo ake, akhale ndi maudindo ake, monga kuwonera TV kapena kusewera ndi magetsi ake.
Koma ngati iye akukana kusamba, kapena akudzinenera kuti watanganidwa kwambiri, musamulole kuti asangalale ndi mwayi wake. Tikukhulupirira kuti masiku angapo opanda mwayi adzamuthandiza kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi chowonetsa nthawi zonse.
Ngati kuyesetsa kwanu kulimbikitsa mwana wanu kusamba nthawi zambiri sizothandiza, funani akatswiri othandizira. Angakhale ndi zifukwa zina zomwe zimayenera kuthandizidwa kapena mwina angafunike zambiri za ukhondo kwa munthu wina kupatula iwe.
Pewani chiyeso chopweteketsa mwana wanu. Kumuuza mobwerezabwereza kuti ayenera kusamba kungapangitse kukana.
Kugonana kungathandizenso mwana wanu kuti azidalira kwambiri inu. Cholinga chachikulu ndicho kuti azitha kusamalira ukhondo pamene simukumukumbutsa. Choncho onetsetsani kuti akudziwa kuti ndi udindo wake kusamba, koma padzakhala zotsatira ngati satero.
Perekani mwana wanu kusinthasintha pa nthawi yomwe akuwotha. Achinyamata ena amakonda kusamba m'mawa kuti awathandize kudzuka kusukulu. Koma ena angapezeke kuti akhoza kusamba ngati atachita masana kapena madzulo. Chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti mwana wanu amachita izi, mosasamala kanthu nthawi yomwe akufuna kusamba.
Khalani Chitsanzo Chabwino
Ngati muli ndi chobvala chofanana kwa masiku kumapeto, kapena mumadutsa masana kumapeto kwa sabata, musayembekezere mwana wanu kuti asamalire. Khalani chitsanzo chabwino ndipo mumusonyeza kufunika kwa ukhondo.
Kambiranani za kusamba m'manja, kusinthanitsa khitchini, ndi kuyeretsa kusambira. Zonsezi zikutumiza uthenga wokhudzana ndi kufunika kokhalabe wathanzi komanso wathanzi.
Kambiranani za zochitika zaumwini za kudzikonda. Sonyezani mwana wanu kuti amadzilemekeza nokha ndipo mumayamikira kusamalira thanzi lanu.