Musalole Mitsempha Yopikisana Yosavuta Kuwononga Zomwe Mukuchita

Anthu amakumana ndi mikangano m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Popanda chitsogozo choyenera, anthu ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe a mawondo awo omwe angapangitse vutoli. Mu ofesi ya zachipatala, ofesi ya ofesi kapena omwe ali mu gawo la utsogoleri amafunikira maluso ofunikira kuti athetse bwino nkhondoyo.

Ndondomeko zoyankhulana zapikisano zimatsimikizira ngati kusamvana sikungathetsedwe kapena anthu omwe akulimbana nawo amatha kupeza yankho logwirizana. Ndikofunika kuzindikira njira zolimbana zosagwira ntchito kuti achepetse kapena kuthetsa zotsatira zoipa pamene mkangano umapezeka mu ofesi ya zamankhwala. Mavuto osagwirizanitsa angayambitse kulankhulana bwino , zotsatira zabwino zokhutira ndi odwala kapena malo osagwira ntchito a ogwira ntchito ku ofesi.

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Kupewa Kulimbana

Ngakhale kuti anthu ena angaganize kuti ndibwino, kupeŵa kukangana ndi njira yopanda ntchito yothetsera mikangano. Kupewa kumabweretsa mikangano yosathetsa yomwe ingayambitse kuyanjana kosokoneza.

Kodi ndi zizindikiro ziti zotsutsana ndi kukangana?

• Kusagwirizana pang'ono
• Kupewa chipani china
• Kusungira chakukhosi
• Kukhumudwa
• Kuchonderera munthu wina
• Kusadalira kwenikweni pa chipani china

Kodi kumenyana kotetezeka kumawoneka bwanji?

1. Zikhoza kuthetsa mikangano m'mbali zonse za moyo zomwe zimapangitsa mikangano kukhala yotheka monga chiyanjano kapena chilengedwe
2. Chochitika chimapezeka kuti mmodzi kapena onse awiri akuwona ngati vuto lakumenyana
3. Nkhondoyo iyenera kuyambitsidwa ndi kuchitapo kanthu ndi mmodzi kapena onse awiri pokhapokha mwa kulankhulana mawu kapena osalankhula koma kwa anthu omwe amapewa mkangano wotsutsana sizinayambe. Munthuyo angapereke kwa wina mnzake kapena kupeŵa mkangano kwathunthu.
4. Popeza kuti mkangano sunathetsedwe, nkhani zimamanga ndipo pamapeto pake zimabweretsa mikangano yolakwika chifukwa munthuyo amatha kuchita zoipa.
5. Chifukwa chakuti nkhondoyo inathera bwino, phwandolo likuzindikira kuti mkangano ndi woipa ndipo kuzunguliraku kubwerezedwa.

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Kulankhulana kwapikisano

Anthu omwe saopa kutsutsana samapewa koma amatha kukhala ndi njira zomwe zimapangitsa kuti chiwerengero cha mikangano chiwonjezeke. Kulankhulana kwapikisano kumachitika pamene phwando lililonse likuyesera kuti lilamulire ndi kuthandizana.

Kodi ndi zizindikiro zotani zokhudzana ndi mpikisano?

• Kudandaula
• Kudzudzula kapena kuzunzidwa kwanu
• Kupanga manja oopseza
• Kuponyera mabatani osagwirizana ndi zochitikazo
• Kuyenda kutali
• Chiwawa

Kodi mpikisano wamakono wovunda umawoneka bwanji?

1. Zikhoza kuthetsa mkangano m'mbali zonse za moyo zomwe zimapangitsa mkangano kukhala wotheka monga ubale kapena chilengedwe
2. Chochitika chimapezeka kuti mmodzi kapena onse awiri akuwona ngati vuto lakumenyana
3. Nkhondoyo imayambitsidwa ndi zochita ndi mmodzi kapena onse awiri kupyolera mwa kulankhulana mawu kapena osalankhula. Phwando lomwe likuyambitsa mkangano nthawi zambiri limakhala lolimba motsutsana ndi chipani china.
4. Winawake akuyankha ndipo amatenga mkhalidwe wamphamvu ndipo nkhondoyo ikuwonjezereka.
5. Chipani chimodzi chikupambana, chipani china chimataya ndipo chifukwa nkhondoyo inathera bwino, phwando lomwe linataya likuwona kuti nkhondoyo ndi yoipa ndipo kayendetsedwe kabwereza kawirika.

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Makhalidwe Osautsa

Mtundu wachitatu wa kuthetsa vutoli ndizosautsa. Munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lachiwawa ndilo lomwe silinayang'ane mwachindunji ndi chipani china koma kumagwira ntchito kumbuyo kuti apeze njira yawo.

Kodi ndi zizindikiro ziti za khalidwe lachiwawa?

• Amapita kumbuyo kwa munthu kumbuyo kapena amapita kumutu
• Muziyerekezera kukhala mabwenzi pamene sali
• Zimayambitsa kubwezeretsa
• Kusunga chinthu chimene munthu wina akufuna mpaka atapeza zomwe akufuna
• Amasonyeza mkwiyo mwachindunji

Kodi kukambirana kwaukali-kosautsa kumawoneka bwanji?

1. Zikhoza kuthetsa mkangano m'mbali zonse za moyo zomwe zimapangitsa mkangano kukhala wotheka monga ubale kapena chilengedwe
2. Chochitika chimapezeka kuti mmodzi kapena onse awiri akuwona ngati vuto lakumenyana
3. Nkhondoyo imayambitsidwa ndi zochita ndi mmodzi kapena onse awiri kupyolera mwa kulankhulana mawu kapena osalankhula.
4. M'malo molimbana ndi munthu wina, munthu wokonda zachiwawa amatha kugwiritsa ntchito njira zowononga kuti ayende
5. Ngati zochita za munthu wochita zachiwawa zimagwira ntchito, amalingalira kuti khalidweli ndi lovomerezeka, phwando limene linatayika limazindikira kuti nkhondoyo ndi yoipa ndipo ndondomekoyi imabwerezedwa.