Ndondomeko zomwe mungatsatire pokonzekera utumiki wanu kapena munthu amene mumamukonda
Mipando ndi misonkhano ya chikumbutso zimapereka mwayi kwa mamembala, abwenzi ndi ena omwe amadziwa ndi kukonda wakufayo kuti asonkhane pamodzi kuti alemekeze ndi kumwalira munthu amene adamwalira ndikupereka chitonthozo kwa iwo omwe ali pafupi naye, komanso wina ndi mnzake.
Zomwe zinakonzedweratu imfa ikadzachitika (yomwe ilipo " chosowa ") kapena kale ( posachedwa ), kukonzekera maliro kapena msonkhano wa chikumbutso kawirikawiri kumakhala kovuta, ndipo nthawi zina kumatopetsa.
Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza mwachidule njira zomwe mungatsatire pokonzekera mwambo wamaliro kapena wachikumbutso, kaya nokha kapena wokondedwa wanu.
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Mwachiwonekere, nthawi yomwe mungatenge kukonzekera ndikukonzekera mwambo wa maliro kapena chikumbutso idzakhala yosiyana malinga ndi momwe mukukonzekera mwambo wamaliro kapena msonkhano wa chikumbutso pasanakhale imfa - mwinamwake nokha kapena wokondedwa yemwe akukumana ndi moyo wake matenda - kapena pambuyo pa imfa yachitika. Ziribe kanthu, masitepe omwe ali pansipa amagwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika zilizonse.
Momwe Mungakonzekere Mphwando kapena Utumiki wa Chikumbutso
Kukonza mwambo wamaliro kapena msonkhano wa chikumbutso ndi ndondomeko yaumwini, ndipo zosankha zanu zidzasinthidwa ndi zochitika zanu, moyo wanu ndi wakufayo, zomwe wakufayo amafuna kapena zomwe mumalakalaka mukamwalira, zomwe mungakwanitse, ndi Zambirimbiri. Pali zifukwa zingapo zokonzekera maliro , koma izi ndizo zisankho zomwe muyenera kuchita.
1. Sankhani Fomu Yokonza
Anthu ambiri amalakwitsa kuganiza kuti maliro ndi manda amakhala chimodzimodzi, kapena kusankha kusungidwa kumatanthawuza kuti simungathe kuchita maliro ndi thupi la mtembo wakufa. Choncho, nkofunika kumvetsetsa kuti "maliro" monga momwe timaganizira kawirikawiri amakhudza ntchito ziwiri zofunika :
• Zomwe mungachite ndi matupi a wakufayo (mawonekedwe omaliza)
• Momwe mungalemekezere, kumbukirani ndikukondwerera moyo ndi kukumbukira munthu amene adamwalira (mawonekedwe a maliro kapena msonkhano wa chikumbutso)
Pokonzekera mwambo wamaliro kapena mwambo wa chikumbutso, zingakhale zosavuta poyamba kusankha mawonekedwe a thupi lomaliza omwe mukufuna :
• Kuika maliro (Zachikhalidwe) : Kaya zili pansi pa manda / manda, kapena pamwamba pa mandalaum kapena manda (nthawi zina amatchedwa "chikhomo"), kuikidwa m'manda kumaphatikizapo kugula chimanga, malo a manda kapena malo osungirako mausolomu, chombo kapena malo osungiramo maliro , ndi mwala wapamutu, chizindikiro, chizindikiro kapena chipika.
• Kuika maliro ( zachilengedwe kapena "zobiriwira") : Chiwerengero chowonjezeka cha manda a mwambo wamaliro, komanso malo omwe amadziwidwira mwatsatanetsatane. Kawirikawiri, anthu omwe amasankha kuikidwa m'manda amayesetsa kuchepetsa chilengedwe chawo pambuyo pa imfa.
• Kutentha : Kutentha kumagwiritsa ntchito kutentha / moto kuti thupi liwononge zidutswa kapena " phulusa ." Izi zimapangitsa kuti opulumukawo apitirize kupulumuka, monga kusunga kapena kusakaza zotsalira, kuikidwa pansi pamtunda mumtsinje, kuika zida zowonongeka zimakhalabe mu columbarium , ndi zina zotero.
• Mchere wa Alkaline Hydrolysis : Mtundu uwu womaliza uli watsopano ndipo sungakhalepobe m'dera lanu, koma njira yamchere ya alkaline yotentha (nthawi zina imatchedwa "yopanda chilema") imagwiritsa ntchito kupanikizika ndi kutentha pang'ono (poyerekeza ndi kutenthedwa) kuti kuchepetsa thupi madzi amadzimadzi komanso zidutswa za mafupa.
2. Onetsani Utumiki Wofunika
Zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, ntchito za maliro zawonjezeka kwambiri, ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri akuganizabe za " maliro a mwambo " monga momwe amachitira. Msonkhano wa maliro kapena mwambo wa chikumbutso umasonyeza moyo wapadera ndi umunthu wa munthu wakufa, monga momwe amawonera ndi wakufayo ndi / kapena wokondedwa ake omwe akupulumuka, ndipo mosasamala kanthu momwe mawonekedwe oterewa amachitira.
Mabanja ambiri masiku ano amasankha kukonzekera maliro kapena kukumbukira mwambo wa kukumbukira wakufayo pamene anali mu moyo, ntchito yokhudza thupi la munthu wakufayo, kapena kuphatikiza zonse ziwiri. Choncho, muyenera kulingalira ndikukonzekera mwambo wa maliro kapena chikumbutso kuti inu ndi / kapena munthu amene anamwalira mumalingalire njira yowonjezera yonena "chabwino" - chinthu chomwe chimatenga makhalidwe apadera a womwalirayo; amasonyeza zomwe amakhulupirira komanso / kapena zaumwini, zachipembedzo kapena zauzimu; ndipo amapereka mwayi wosaiŵalika, wokhutiritsa olira kuti afotokoze chisoni chawo pamene akulimbikitsana ndi kuthandizana.
Mabanja ena amasankha kuchita maliro kumalo opembedzera kapena kumapemphero a nyumba ya maliro omwe amaphatikizapo kuwerenga ndi nyimbo zachipembedzo; ena amafuna ntchito zachipembedzo kapena zosakhala zachipembedzo zomwe zimapezeka pamalo amtundu kapena pagulu; komabe ena amasankha kuika maliro apadera ndi kupempherera kwa am'banja mwamsanga ndipo kenako msonkhano wachikumbutso kwa okondedwa.
Muyeneranso kulingalira zotsatirazi mukamaganizira mwambo wanu wamaliro kapena mwambo wokumbukira mwambo wanu , monga momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito:
• Otsogolera omwe angatsogolere utumiki, monga mtsogoleri wachipembedzo, celebration, mtsogoleri wa maliro, ndi zina zotero.
• Kuwerenga, monga ndakatulo, mapemphero, ndime zachipembedzo kapena zapadera, ndi zina zotero, komanso amene adzawapulumutse
• Eulogist (s), amene alembe ndikupereka zolemba zokhudza womwalirayo
• Nyimbo, kaya masiku ano, nyimbo zachipembedzo kapena zonse
• Zakudya / Zakudya Zakudya, kaya zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mwakhama, zimaperekedwa "potsekemera" ndi omwe akupezeka, kapena kukonzedwa ndi nyumba ya maliro kapena wopereka
• Otsalira, ngati chomaliza chimaphatikizapo ntchito yamanda
• Kugwiritsa ntchito webusaiti ya maliro , kapena kupanga zojambula zazomwe zilipo mtsogolo
• Kakhudza munthu, monga bolodi lakumbukira , kanema ya chikumbutso, kukumbukira kwake, ndi zina.
3. Kodi Mukufuna Thupi Lalipo?
Chisankho china chofunikira chomwe muyenera kuchita pakukonzekera maliro kumakhudza kukhalapo kwa womwalirayo. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, kuikidwa m'manda ndi kutentha ndi njira chabe ya thupi, ndipo sichifunikanso kapena kulepheretsa ntchito za maliro ndi thupi . Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kukonza maliro a "mwambo" omwe akuphatikizapo kudzuka / kuthamangitsidwa kale ndi thupi lokhazikika pamatope ngakhale mutakhumba kutentha kwa wakufa ngati mawonekedwe omaliza. Momwemonso, mabanja ena amasankha kupha munthu wosafa popanda utumiki, koma athandizidwe ndi chikumbutso pambuyo pake kapena popanda zotsalira zomwe zilipo.
4. Maluwa, Mphatso kapena Zonsezi?
Mwachizoloŵezi, anthu amatumiza maluwa a maliro kapena maluwa achifundo monga chizindikiro cha chithandizo ndi kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo. Kwa zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, mabanja adagwiritsanso ntchito mawu akuti "M'malo mwa maluwa ..." mu zizindikiro za imfa komanso malo ovomerezeka kuti azitha kupereka malipiro a maliro m'malo mwa, kapena kuwonjezera pamenepo, maluwa. Choncho, muyenera kusankha ngati anthu omwe angatumizeko angatumize maluwa, ngati mukufuna kuti apereke bungwe losankhidwa bwino kapena akumbukira munthu wakufayo, kapena ngati mawonekedwe ake ali oyenera . ( Chonde onani " Ndemanga Zina Zosiyanasiyana" M'malo Maluwa " " kuti mudziwe momwe mungalankhulire bwino zolinga zanu .)
Kaya mwafunsidwa ku imfa kapena zofuna zanu, zofalitsa zamagulu kapena zamalankhula, muyenera kufotokozera momveka bwino momwe mungatumizire zopereka. Zitsanzo za zifukwa zabwino kapena mabungwe omwe mungasankhe ndi awa :
• chipatala chomwe chinasamalira wokondedwa wanu
• chifukwa chofuna kupeza chithandizo cha matenda kapena matenda omwe amachititsa imfa ya wokondedwa wanu, monga khansara, matenda a mtima, Alzheimer's, ndi zina zotero.
• chikondi, bungwe kapena bizinesi yomwe ikuyimira chifukwa kapena cholinga chowonetsera chikhumbo kapena chikhulupiliro cha womwalirayo, kapena chimene adachirikiza
5. Wothandizira / Wopereka Chithandizo
Pambuyo podziwa zapamwambazi, sitepe yotsatira ndiyo kufufuza zomwe mungachite. Ngati imfa yachitika kale, mutha kulankhulana ndi nyumba ya maliro, kumalo otentha kapena kumanda . ( Ndipo mungafune kuwerenga " Zomwe Mungachite Pomwe Munthu Wokondedwa Akamwalira ," zomwe zimapereka mndandanda wa ntchito zomwe opulumuka ayenera kuzigwira nthawi yomweyo .) Wosankhidwa wanu angakuthandizeni kukonzekera mwambo wa maliro, chikumbutso ndi / kapena chitetezo chomwe mukufuna ; perekani zokhudzana ndi mankhwala anu osiyanasiyana ndi ntchito zomwe mungachite; fotokozerani ndalama zomwe zimagulitsidwa pa malonda, mautumiki ndi zina zothandizira; ndikukuthandizani kuti muyambe chidziwitso cha obituary kapena imfa ndikupezetseni zilembo zakufa.
Muyeneranso kukambilana ndi amene mumapereka zokhudzana ndi chipembedzo kapena chikhalidwe chomwe mukufuna kuti chilemekezedwe. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kukhala maliro kapena mwambo wa maliro, mungakonde kugwiritsa ntchito misonkhano ya maliro omwe nyumba za maliro zimakhala ndi antchito awo. Nyumba zambiri za maliro zimakhalanso ndi mwayi wotumikira mabanja kuchokera ku chikhalidwe chosiyana ndi miyambo yawo ya maliro, miyambo ndi miyambo.
Ngati mukukonzekera mwambo wamaliro kapena msonkhano wa chikumbutso pasadakhale, muyenera kufufuza zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito ndi ntchito zanu pa intaneti mwakuchezera mawebusaiti a nyumba za maliro, operekera kutentha komanso / kapena manda a m'deralo. Masiku ano, malonda ambiri amapereka mauthenga abwino komanso othandizira pa intaneti, mitengo, ndipo amalembetsa " Zowonjezera Zachiwerengero Chake " (ngati Federal Trade Commission (FTC) imafuna kuti wothandizira akhale ndi "GPL"). Izi zimapangitsa kuti mukhale zosavuta kuyerekezera mitengo ndi ntchito / katundu wotsatsa zomwe zikupezeka kwanuko.
Mwachiwonekere, mungathe kufufuza zambiri mwa njira zina , monga kudzera pa Yellow Pages, poimba pulogalamu kapena kulemba, kapena ngakhale mukuyendera munthu wothandizira.
Pomalizira, kaya mukukonzekera maliro musanamwalire kapena mutatha kufa, muli ndi ufulu wambiri wodalirika pansi pa FTC "Mgwirizano wa maliro" omwe muyenera kuwunika ndikuwamvetsa .
6. Ganizirani Zopereka Zanu
Zidzakhala zosiyana malinga ndi mawonekedwe otsiriza komanso mtundu wa maliro kapena msonkhano wa chikumbutso umene mukufuna koma muyenera kulingalira momwe mudzalipirire mautumikiwa. Pali zambiri zomwe mungachite polipira lero, monga :
• Kusungidwa kwanu
• Inshuwalansi
• Kupereka ndalama, nthawi zambiri kudzera mu maliro anu
• Makhadi a ngongole
• Nkhani yotchedwa Totten Trust / Payable-on-Death (POD) ku bungwe la zachuma, lomwe limapatula ndalama zowonjezera ndalama zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa munthu wopindula ndi kupeŵa kuyesa.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, n'zotheka kupanga mapulogalamu anu pasadakhale ndi wothandizira ndiyeno kulipira pasadakhale , kaya zonse mwakamodzi kapena kudzera m'zigawo. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kuti alowe muzinthu izi , kuphatikizapo kuchotsa zolemetsa zopanga zovuta pamene imfa imapezeka; kupeŵa mavuto a zachuma kwa opulumuka, kapena kugwiritsira ntchito chuma chawo kuti akwaniritse maudindo ena a boma.
7. Pangani Nzeru Zanu Zodziwika
Pomaliza, ngati mukukonzekera mwambo wanu wa maliro kapena msonkhano wa chikumbutso pasadakhale, muyenera kudziwitsa banja lanu zokhuza moyo wanu kuti muthe kudziwa zomwe mukufuna . Choyenera, muyenera kupereka zolembera m'malo modalira chikumbumtima cha membala wanu kapena kusunga malingaliro anu pa kompyuta yanu, komabe ngakhale kukambirana mawu amodzi ndi mnzanu kapena mnzanu, mwana, mchimwene kapena kholo mungathe kutsimikizira bwino kuposa china chilichonse.
Ngati mwakonzekera mwambo wanu maliro kapena mwambo wa chikumbutso ndi wothandizira, ndiye kuti muyenera kusunga mapepalawo ndi mapepala ena ofunikira kunyumba - ndipo mulole okondedwa anu adziwe za kukhalapo kwawo ndi malo awo - kotero kuti ali ndi mwayi wopeza nthawi yake iwo pakufunika. Ngati mumasunga zolemba zanu mwamtendere, kapena mutayika pakhomete la chitetezo, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti wokondedwa wanu amadziwanso kuti ali ndi chitetezo chokha kapena angathe kupeza chinsinsi.