Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za matenda a maganizo ndi kusokonezeka nthawi, malo kapena munthu . Amuna omwe ali ndi kukumbukira kukumbukira , komanso omwe angathe kusokonezeka.
Nthawi zina, kusokonezeka uku kumawonetsedwa poitana amayi kapena abambo. "Amayi, muli kuti?" "Bambo, bwera kuno!" Munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a 'dementia' angafune kukhalapo kwa kholo kuti ateteze chitetezo ndi chitonthozo m'malo osadziwika, ndipo waiwala kuti wokondedwa wawo wamwalira zaka zapitazo.
(Ngakhale ngati pakhomo pake ndi nyumba ya munthu, mwina sangamudziwenso.)
Kodi njira yabwino yothetsera kuyitana uku ndi iti? Kodi munganene chiyani kuti mumutsimikizire komanso mutonthoze munthuyo?
Nazi njira zitatu zomwe mungayesere:
Lembani malingaliro a munthuyo pomakhala naye nthawi, mukufunsa mafunso ndikumulimbikitsa. Mungayesere chinthu chonga ichi: "Hi Fran, kodi mukufuna munthu wina? Ndamva kuti mukupempha thandizo. Kodi ndingakuthandizeni ndi chinachake?"
Ngati akufunsa komwe amayi ake ali, munganene moona mtima kuti, "Sindikudziwa kuti sindinamuone posachedwa." Ngati Fransi akupitirizabe kupempha amayi ake, mungayesere mafunso awa: "Kodi amayi anu amawoneka bwanji? Kodi anali wophika wabwino? Kodi chakudya chake chinali chiyani? Tsitsi lake linali lotani? Anakuphunzitsani chiyani? Mukumukonda chiyani? "
Nthawi zina, mutagwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso, munthuyo akhoza kutonthozedwa pokhapokha atayankhula za amayi ake kapena abambo omwe amamsowa.
Zomwe zingakumbukire zingakhale zokwanira kuti mutonthoze ndi kumutsimikizira munthuyo. Nthawi zina, kutsimikiziridwa kungathandizenso munthu kufika pamapeto pa zokambirana zomwe akunena, "Mukudziwa, ndikusowa amayi anga ndipo anamwalira zaka zambiri zapitazo."
- Kusokoneza
Pezani zosowa za wodwala kapena wokondedwa wanu mwakumutsimikizira mwanjira ina.
Muthandizeni kuti aganizire pazosiyana ndi zosangalatsa. Yesani izi: "Amayi, kodi tingayende limodzi? Ndikufunika kutambasula miyendo yanga ndikudziwa kuti inunso mutero, tiyeni tipeze mpweya wabwino. Mayi, ndikuthokoza kwambiri kuti ndikutha kukakhala ndi iwe. "
Nthaŵi zina, zinthu zimakhala bwino kumene kuli bwino kukhala wolunjika komanso wowona mtima, ngakhale pamene zingapweteke. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wokondedwa wanu akuda nkhawa za amayi ake kapena abambo ake ndipo akukhulupirira kuti akudwala kapena ali pangozi, zingakhale zothandiza, ngati apitirizabe kudandaula zawo, kuwauza kuti munthuyo wamwalira kale sadandaula za iwo.
Kawirikawiri, njirayi siyotonthozedwa chifukwa ikhoza kuyambitsa munthu kuyamba kuyambiranso kulira chifukwa cha imfa ya kholo. Komabe, muzochitika zanga zachipatala, pakhalapo nthawi zina zomwe zimapereka mpumulo kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a maganizo chifukwa amatha kuika nkhawa zawo pambali.
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Zotsatira:
Alzheimer's Society. Kulankhulana. Idafika pa January 29, 2015. http://forum.alzheimers.org.uk/showthread.php?11456-Pamenepo-kuthandizani-
Stroke Association. Kusamalira Anthu Omwe Ali ndi Dementia. Idapezeka pa January 29, 2015. http://www.strokeassociation.org/idc/groups/stroke-public/@wcm/@hcm/@sta/documents/downloadable/ucm_310595.pdf