Kuyankhulana ndi Chimodzi Choyang'ana Momwe Mzimu Woyera Umayimira DiMartile
DiMartile Demo Yatsopano ya New York ndi mphunzitsi ndi machiritso auzimu. Ali ndi mbiri yakalekale yogwira ntchito yakuchiritsidwa, kukonzanso ndi kutsogolera kusinkhasinkha kwa malingaliro okhudzana ndi thanzi ndi ukhondo m'maganizo ndi thupi. Iye posachedwapa anayambitsa malonda atsopano, One Light One Spirit, ndipo chimodzi mwa zinthu zoyamba ndizo kusinkhasinkha kwa mphindi makumi atatu kwa amayi omwe ali ndi matenda a chithokomiro . Ndinali ndi mwayi wokumbukira kusinkhasinkha, ndikuphunzira zambiri za maganizo a Demo ndi zolinga pakupanga kusinkhasinkha.
Mary Shomon : Kodi mungagawana chiyani chomwe chinakulimbikitsani kuti muzisinkhasinkha za thanzi ndi chitsikomiro?
Demo DiMartile : Pamene ndinayamba kukhala ndi Mzimu umodzi umodzi, cholinga changa chinali kuzindikira zikhulupiriro zomwe zimatilepheretsa kukhala ndi mphamvu zathu komanso kuzindikira mphamvu zathu za uzimu. Ndinayamba kupanga njira zosiyanasiyana zosinkhasinkha zomwe zingathandize kuchiritsa kupatukana kwa chidziwitso komanso kuphatikiza thupi, maganizo ndi mzimu. Nthaŵi yonseyi, kumbuyo kwa malingaliro anga anali mawu omvera akuti "Akazi okha." Nditatsatira mawuwo, ndinakumbukira amayi anga ndipo anandichitira chifundo komanso kulemekeza zosowa za amayi.
Amayi anga anali oyamba kubadwa m'banja la ana khumi omwe anapulumuka. Anali mayi wamasiye, wothandizira komanso wosamalira abale ake komanso amayi ake kwa ana ake atatu. Patsiku lake palibe chomwe chimatchedwa matenda a chithokomiro ngakhale kuti anali ndi zizindikiro zonse: kupweteka kwakukulu, kusinthasintha maganizo, kumva kukhumudwa komanso kukhumudwa kwambiri ndi mahomoni.
Zinali zopweteka kwambiri kuti zonse zomwe ankanyamula kwa wina aliyense, sanamve kuti zatsimikizirika. Kawirikawiri iye adanena kuti amadzichitira yekha manyazi, ndipo adakhala ndikukana kwathunthu zosowa zake, ndikukhulupirira kuti sangafikepo. Adzakhala akukhwimitsa zida zomwe zinabwera pamene adatopa kapena ali ndi nkhawa, komanso pamene sakanatha kupempha zomwe akufuna.
Anali mphunzitsi wachitsanzo kuti ndizindikire momwe akazi amamvera. Ndinayamba kuwona ndikumvetsera nkhani za amayi anga zikukamba za amayi omwe ali ndi chithokomiro, ndipo ndinkamvetsetsa kulimbana kwawo.
Kuchokera pakuwona, zizindikiro zimayambitsa njira yothetsera vutoli. Ndimakhulupirira mwachidwi kuti manyazi ndizo zimayambitsa matenda a chithokomiro komanso kuti manyazi amachititsa manyazi (zolinga) ndi mawu. Gulu la chithokomiro limakhala pa bokosi la mawu, ndipo pali mgwirizano wokhudzana ndi zosowa zamaganizo ndi kuzinena.
Kotero amayi anga omwe anali otsogolera kwenikweni pa Kusinkhasinkha kwa Chithokomiro, ndikumulemekeza iye ndi amayi ambiri omwe akulimbana ndi zotsatira za matenda a chithokomiro, ndinapanga chida chodzipatsa mphamvu ndikukhala bwino - chokonzedwa makamaka kwa amayi.
Mary Shomon: Nchifukwa chiyani mumaganiza kuti chiwalo cha thupi ndi mbali yofunikira ya njira yodzikometsera?
Demo DiMartile: Chifukwa chimasokoneza chikumbumtima chathu ndi mantha komanso zimalimbikitsa kudzidalira komanso kudzipatsa mphamvu. Kugwirizana kwa thupi kumalimbitsa chikhulupiriro chanu chomwe chiri chofunikira kuti mukhale ndi ulamuliro pa moyo wanu ndi ufulu wambiri wosankha. Kusankha ndiko kugwiritsa ntchito ufulu wakudzisankhira.
Mukamapereka mphamvu ya chifuniro chanu ndi zozizwitsa (zikhulupiriro zanu) mu gawo lanu la malingaliro anu, mudzayamba kusintha maganizo anu m'njira zomwe simunayambe mukuganiza. Komanso kugwirizana kwa thupi ndikofunika kuti mudzikhulupirire nokha, ndipo kugwiritsa ntchito chikhulupilirochi ndikulemekeza chikhulupiriro chanu mwa inu nokha.
Maganizo a thupi ndi amphamvu, koma ndikuwonjezera mzimu: maganizo a thupi. Ndiye izo ziri zenizeni zenizeni pamene izo zimaphatikizapo utatu wokha. Chitsanzochi chimaphatikizapo kusakanizirana kwathunthu kugwira ntchito mogwirizana mogwirizana ndi maganizo ophatikizidwa kwambiri a umoyo wauzimu.
Mary Shomon : Nthawi zina, zimamveka ngati kuwonongeka kwakukulu kwa matenda a chithokomiro - lingaliro lakuti chithokomiro chimasonyeza kutsekedwa kwa mmero wa chakra, ndipo chifukwa cholephera kunena zoona za munthu - kwenikweni "akudzudzula wozunzidwa. " Monga momwe, ngati mkazi angoyankhula zambiri, sitidzakhala ndi chithokomiro. Kodi maganizo anu amasiyana bwanji ndi izi?
Demo DiMartile: Izi siziri zotsutsa. Iyi ndi nkhani yovuta komanso yovuta ndipo imakhala ndi chidziwitso cha uzimu cha umunthu wathu.
Mphuno chakra ikugwirizana ndi mawu ndi mawu a moyo wanu. Ndi pano zomwe malingaliro ndi zolinga zimasandulika kukhala mawu kuti muthe kulankhulana onse payekha komanso mwauzimu. Chinthu ichi chimayimira ma logos anu kapena "kumvetsetsa bwino" nokha monga Mlengi wothandizira ndi Mlengi. Chowonadi chanu chimasintha kuchokera kumvetsetsa, ndipo chimatanthauzira kuti ndinu ndani kwenikweni mwa kukhulupirika kwa mawu anu ndi chifuniro chanu. Ichi chakra ndicho kusintha kwa moyo wa chisinthiko chomwe chimapitirira kuposa chidziwitso chako chaumunthu ndipo chimapititsa kuyanjana kwauzimu. Gulu la chithokomiro ndilolumikizana ndi mmero wa chimero cha chakra chomwe chili cholimba kapena cholimba.
Monga mukudziwira, chithokomiro chimakhala ngati gulugufe, chomwe chimayimira kusintha ndi kusasintha. Kotero ngati pali kusamvana kwa chithokomiro , sizikutanthawuza kuti munthu sangakwanitse kulankhula zoona zake kapena kuti kungonena, kudzateteza kusamvana kwa chithokomiro. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti chithokomiro chiyenera kukhala chogwirizana ndi maonekedwe a uzimu, ndi kuti pali ntchito yoti ichitidwe kuthetsa malingaliro a maganizo m'mbuyo mwa chikhalidwe. Mwa kufunsa, "Kodi chikhalidwe ichi chiyenera kundiphunzitsa chiyani?" Kapena kodi mtengo wa chithokomiro umakhala wotani m'moyo wanga? "Akazi akhoza kuyamba kusintha mphamvu.
Mudamva mawu akuti, Ife ndife anthu auzimu okhala ndi zochitika zaumunthu, osati anthu omwe akulimbana kuti akhale auzimu. Ndipo ife sitiyenera konse kuzimangirira izo ziwiri.
Moyo uliwonse ndi selo mu thupi laumunthu. Moyo uliwonse umene umalowa m'zochitika zaumunthu umatengera chilonda chachinyengo kuti chichiritse mkati mwachokha kuti karma yokhudzana ndi bala ilo ikhoza kuchiritsidwa mu mzimu wamoyo wonse. Izi zimadziwika ndi gulu la karma, kumene miyoyo yambiri yolimba ndi yachisomo ikugwira ntchito yomweyi mwa iwo okha chifukwa cha kudzutsa kwawo komanso kusintha kwa umunthu.
Vuto ndi mgwirizano woyamba kubadwa kapena kusankha kusintha moyo wanu kuti muthe kugonjetsa nkhondoyo ndikudzutsa moyo wanu wauzimu. Chilonda si chilango, karma yoipa kapena tsoka. Ndi chisankho chabwino ndi aphunzitsi anu. Icho chimapereka cholinga cha moyo wanu ndi chifukwa chanu chokhala pano.
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Pamene mukulandira bala, limakhala mphatso komanso chinthu chomwe chidzakupulumutseni, kukumasulani ndikukupangitsani inu kukhala okhwima . Ndicho chimene chimatanthawuzidwa ndi inu kukhala munthu wauzimu wokhala ndi zochitika za umunthu. Mwapatsidwa mphamvu ya uzimu kuphunzira maphunziro a moyo wanu ndikusintha kwina. Ngati muwona chilonda ngati chonyansa kapena kugwidwa nacho, ndiye kuti mukuchita zozizwitsa kuti ndinu munthu amene mukukumana ndi mavuto kuti mukhale auzimu ndipo mukulimbikitsana. Chikhulupiriro chimenecho sichikulolani kuti mukhale nokha kapena wina aliyense.
Funsani, "Kodi phunziro la chithokomiro ndi chiyani?" , ndi kuyamba moyo kufufuza. Ngati muli ndi mtima wolandira ndi mtima wonse chikhalidwe monga gawo la kukula kwanu kwauzimu, ndiye kuti pangakhale kusintha kwakukulu.
Matenda a chithokomiro akufala pakati pa akazi ndi mamiliyoni ambiri akuvutika nawo padziko lonse lapansi. Kulamulira kwa amuna kwapondereza akazi kwa zaka zambiri pogwiritsa ntchito manyazi chifukwa chonyalanyaza, kuzunza, kuopseza, ndi kuwatonthoza akazi. Zambiri zachitidwa kuti zofooka zawo zifooke ndi kupondereza mawu awo. Koma Akazi a Movement akhala akusintha kwakukulu pa zonsezi.
Ife tsopano tiri mu nthawi ya kuwuka ndi kumasulidwa kwa malingaliro. Mphamvu yamphongo yaamuna ikufika kumapeto pa Winter Equinox ya 2012. Izi ndizopangitsa kuti kusintha kwathu kukhale kosinthika, ndipo kusintha kwakukulu mu chidziwitso ndiko pafupi kuchitika. Akazi onse adzalandira mphamvu zawo za uzimu ndikumva molimba mtima. Ngakhale tsopano, amayi ali okonzeka kukhala ndi maudindo akuluakulu, makamaka mu boma kuti athetsa nkhondo pa ufulu wa amayi, ndipo iwo adzakhala nawo ufulu ndi ufulu womasankha.
Iwo adzayima pambali ndi amuna omwe ali ofanana, ndi mapazi ofanana, liwu lofanana ndi kulemekezana kofanana. Sichidzakhalanso "dziko la munthu." Ndipo akazi adzalemekezedwa monga obweretsa moyo ndi osamalira kusamalira moyo. Akazi atenga zochuluka kwambiri, ndipo ali ndi nzeru ndi chikondi cha innate kubwezeretsa mtendere ndi kukhazikika kwa dziko lathu lapansi.
Mary Shomon : Ngati mkazi akufuna kuti azikhala ndi njira zamaganizo monga kusinkhasinkha kutsogolera mwa njira yake yodzikonda, mungalimbikitse bwanji kuyamba, ndikuyendayenda?
Demo DiMartile : Pano pali masewera amphamvu owonetsera zomwe zikufunika. Khalani m'malo opanda phokoso. Tcherani maso. Yambani kupuma mkati ndi kunja - mpweya wambiri wozama kwambiri, wotsitsimula maganizo anu. Ndiye tengerani chidwi chanu kwa mtima wanu. Pumirani mu mtima mwanu. Tsegulani ndi kudzipereka kwambiri mkati. Tsimikizirani kuti: "Tsopano ndikusankha kufotokoza aphunzitsi omwe amandiyendera bwino kwambiri kuti andithandize pa kusintha kwanga kwauzimu." Tumizani lingaliro limenelo ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzawonetsa chikhumbo cha mtima wanu. Yamikani. Chitani masewera olimbitsa thupi mukakhala ndi chitsimikizo, musanagone.
Phunzirani ndikudzipangitsa kudzikuza ndi kusinkhasinkha. Zili chimodzimodzi kuti zimakulimbikitsani kukumbukira malingaliro ndi nzeru zamalingaliro m'malingaliro osamvetsetseka kumene zikhulupiliro ndi maganizo onse amasungidwa. Kudzinyenga kungakhale kogwira mtima pakupanga kusintha kwa maonekedwe, ndi kuchiritsa thupi, maganizo, ndi maganizo. Ndi mphamvu yopezera thupi. Kusinkhasinkha kuli koyenerera kukula kwa uzimu. Zonsezi ndi zida zamphamvu kwambiri zowonjezera komanso kukhala bwino.
Mary Shomon : Kodi mukuyembekeza kuti omvetsera amachokera kumapeto ndikukambirana za chithokomiro?
Demo DiMartile : Ndikuyembekeza omvera adzakhudza mtendere, mphamvu ndi kuwonetsera kwakukulu kwa mphamvu ya machiritso mwa iwo okha ndikudziwa kuchokera pa zomwe iwo akudziwa kuti patapita nthawi amatha kudzichiritsa ndikudzipangitsa kukhala osagwirizana ndi ntchito ya chithokomiro. Ndikuyembekeza kuti kusinkhasinkha kumatsegula chitseko mu chikazi chachikazi kutenga mphamvu ya akazi yomwe ili yowonjezera moyo kuposa nzeru; kuti akazi ali ndi chikondi chawo chodabwitsa, akulumikiza nzeru zachilengedwe komanso nzeru zawo zachiyero zomwe potsirizira pake zithandiza kuwathandiza kubweza mau awo akunja ndi akunja pamene akuyenda kuyenda mumdima umodzi umodzi.
Kuwonetseratu kwaulere kwa Demo Kusinkhasinkha kwa Chithokomiro cha DiMartile kumapezeka pa intaneti, ndipo kusinkhasinkha kwathunthu kwa chithokomiro kungakhoze kulamulidwa kupyolera mu CDBaby. Mungathe kugwirizana ndi Demo pa tsamba lake la Facebook, www.facebook.com/OneLightOneSpirit.