Kulankhulana ndi Mwana Wanu Za Nkhani Za Amuna Zaumoyo

Kupitirira Mbalame ndi Njuchi

Samalani atate: Kodi bambo anu anakuuzani momasuka za mavuto azaumoyo? Malinga ndi msinkhu wanu, yankho ndilo ayi. Koma pali zizindikiro izi ziri pafupi kusintha.

Kafukufuku wina adawonetsa kuti ana makumi asanu ndi awiri (62%) a abambo ndi ana amafuna kuti abambo awo adziwone za nkhani zaumoyo. Chotsatira chake, 43 peresenti ya abambo omwe mabanja awo salankhula momasuka za thanzi lawo amati akufuna kuswa.

Zifukwa zopewera zokambiranazi zimagwiritsa ntchito zizoloƔezi zochokera ku chikhalidwe ndi manyazi. Ena amati sakudziwa momwe angalankhulire ndi ana awo za nkhani zaumoyo chifukwa atate wawo (chifaniziro) sadayankhule nawo za izo, mwina.

Ena amanyazidwa kapena amanena kuti sangapeze mawu. Ena amamuopa mwana wawo safuna kulankhula za nkhaniyo kapena sangapeze nthawi yoyenera kukambirana.

Monga dotolo yemwe amaganizira za thanzi la amuna, ndikupemphani kuti mukhale ndi zokambirana zofunika ndi ana anu. Mungapeze kuti nkhanizo zisamveke bwino. Mungawapeze kuti ndi ovuta. Koma kumbukirani izi: Ziri zochepa ponena za inu osati za mwana wanu.

Kuyankhulana Ndi Kukulitsa-Kwinamwake

Cleveland Clinic inachititsa kafukufukuyo, "MUKUCHITA IZI," pa amuna oposa mazana asanu ndi atatu (18) ndi oposa omwe amakhala ku US continental. Kafukufukuyu adalemedwa kuti akhale oimira dziko lonse, mbadwo, mtundu kapena mtundu.

Ophunzira onse anali abambo kapena abambo owerengera kwa mnyamata ndipo anali ndi bambo kapena abambo akuwerengera kukula.

Pafupifupi 70 peresenti ya abambo anati mabanja awo amalankhula poyera za thanzi ndi nkhawa, ngakhale anali ana. Pafupifupi theka la magawo atatu (62 peresenti) ya anthu omwe anafunsidwa adafuna kuti makolo awo akhale nawo.

Ndipo pafupifupi 47 peresenti anati sakudziwa mbiri yawo yaumoyo wa banja mpaka iwo anapita kwa dokotala ali wamkulu.

Amayi amasiku ano omwe ali ndi ana amasonyeza kuti amvetsetsa zomwe zimafunika kukamba pa nkhani zokhudzana ndi thanzi.

Kukhala chete Sikofanana Mphamvu

Chovuta chachikulu pa zokambirana za thanzi zimawoneka ngati kukana kukambirana za umoyo wawo chifukwa choopa kuchititsa kuti banja lida nkhawa, chifukwa cha zosankha zaumwini zomwe zakhala zikuthandizira kudwala, kapena kuwonekera ofooka. Mungakhale odzitama kuti ndinu amisala, koma kulephera kuonetsa zizindikiro kwa dokotala zimakuika iwe ndi banja lako pangozi.

Ndili ndi odwala omwe anali ndi mitsempha m'magazi kwa zaka zingapo asanamuwone dokotala. Magazi mu mkodzo ndi chizindikiro cha kansa ya chikhodzodzo , yomwe nthawi zambiri imachiritsidwa mukapezeka msanga.

Panthawi yomwe zaka zingapo zapitazo, matendawa akukhala achiwawa kapena osachiritsika.

Ngati iwe ukhala chete chifukwa iwe umakhala womasuka kunena mawu ena, ine ndikhoza kufotokoza. Pamene ndinayamba maphunziro anga azachipatala, ndinaona kuti ndizosamveka kunena mau ngati "mbolo" ndi "scrotum." Palibe chifukwa chomveka chokhudzimutsa ichi; Ndizomwe zimakhala zokhazokha zomwe zimakulepheretsani. Ndikutsimikizira kuti nthawi zambiri mumalankhula mawu awa, zimakhala zosavuta.

Zoopsa za Kusadziwa

Kupewa khansara ndi chifukwa chachikulu chofunikira kudziwa mbiri yachipatala cha banja lanu ndi kuchidutsa. Kawirikawiri, ndikafunsa odwala za mbiri ya banja lawo la kansa ya prostate kapena matenda amene amadwala nawo, amati, "Bambo anga anali ndi chinachake, koma sindikudziwa chomwe chinali."

Kulongosola zomwe mwakumana nazo ndi vuto lachipatala kungateteze moyo wa mwana wanu. Mankhwala ambiri a khansa, kuphatikizapo prostate ndi khansa yamtundu, amakhala ndi chibadwa choyambirira. Ngati inu kapena wina aliyense m'banja mwathu muli khansara ya prostate musanafike zaka 50, ndi kofunika kuti mwana wanu ayambe kuyang'ana pafupipafupi kwa matendawa. Chifukwa chakuti anthu a ku Africa-America ali pachiopsezo chachikulu cha khansa ya prostate, tikhoza kuyambitsa kuyamba kuyang'anitsitsa ngakhale kale, ngati pali mbiri ya banja.

Kuphunzitsa mwana wanu momwe angadzipangire kudziyesa ndi kofunika pa chifukwa chomwecho. Khansara yowona amayamba kukhudza anyamata omwe akuyambira zaka zapakati pa 15 ndipo ali ndi chiwero cha mankhwala a 98 peresenti pamene agwidwa ndikupatsidwa mankhwala oyambirira.

Mtengo wa Doctor Quarterback

Kafukufukuyu wasonyeza kuti abambo ambiri aamuna ndi ana amakhala omasuka kukambirana mbiri ya umoyo ndi amayi awo, osati atate awo. Ndipo amuna a mibadwo yonse omwe anafukulidwa amakonda kumayankhula za nkhani zina zaumoyo ndi chiwerengero cha abambo, osati ndi bambo awo ochibadwa. Zonse ndi zabwino komanso zabwino, koma amafunikanso dokotala.

Mnyamata aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi chiyanjano ndi dokotala wa chisamaliro chapadera yemwe angakhale ngati quarterback kwa gulu la madokotala, ngati vuto lachipatala liyenera kuwuka. Dokotala uyu adzayang'anira mitundu yonse ya mavuto azachipatala, osati okhawo okhudzana ndi thanzi la amuna, ndikuonetsetsa kuti mwana wanu amalandira mayeso oyenerera owonetsetsa panthawi yoyenera.

Pambuyo pa odwala woyamba kufufuza, mwana wanu sangadayesenso dokotala kwa zaka zingapo. Chowonadi ndi chakuti, simudziwa nthawi yomwe mudzakhala ndi matenda. Pamene wina akukula, simuyenera kuthamanga kukapeza chithandizo.

Ngati muli ndi chibwenzi ndi dokotala wamkulu, mukhoza kuyitana pamene muli ndi vuto ndikufunseni zomwe mukuyenera kuchita. Adotolo adzakuwonani kapena akukonzerani kuti mukacheze wa urologist kapena katswiri wina woyenera.

Kusiyanitsa

Ngati muli m'gulu la anthu omwe sawopa kukambirana nkhani zaumoyo ndi mabanja anu, dziwani inu! Ngati mwakonzeka kuyamba kuyankhulana ndi ana anu zaumoyo ndi nkhawa, apa pali zomwe muyenera kunena:

Abambo omwe akulankhula kale ndi ana awo za thanzi lawo kapena ndondomeko yawo pochita zimenezi amatha zaka 11 mpaka 12 ndi nthawi yabwino kuyamba. Ngati mwasankha kudikirira mpaka mwanayo ali wamkulu, lembani mbiri yanu yachipatala ndi ya banja ndikuisiya mu malo otetezeka ngati mutadutsa msanga.

Chitani Ntchito Yanu

Ngati mukugwira ntchito yanu monga bambo, mukhala ndi zokambirana zambiri ndi ana anu pamene akukula. Kuyankhula za thanzi kuli ngati kukamba zachuma, kukhala wokondedwa wabwino kapena kholo, kapena kufotokoza za imfa. Muyenera kukumba zakuya kuti mupeze mawu oti akambirane zinthu izi. Zoonadi, ndizosangalatsa kulankhula ndi ana anu za masewera, nyengo, kapena ntchito, koma pamapeto pake, thanzi lawo-ndi lanu-ndilofunika kwambiri.

> Chitsime:

> MITU YOYENERA KUCHITIRA, Cleveland Clinic, 2017.