Funso: Kodi Ndingathandize Bwanji Mwana Wanga Wogwira Ntchito Yodzichepetsa?
Ndili ndi mwana wazaka 9 ndi autism. Anapezeka kuti ali ndi zaka ziwiri zapitazo ndipo kudzera mu mgwirizano wamaganizo, wabwera ndi zida. Ngakhale kuti iye si wachilendo, amalowa zambiri ndipo ali ndi anzake angapo tsopano kusukulu. Ndikuopa kufa ngakhale kuti ndamva kuti nthawi yakubadwa ikuyamba kuti ana ambiri ayambirane.
Kodi izi ndi zoona? Kodi pali zinthu zomwe ndingachite kuti ndimuthandize kulimbana bwino ndi mahomoni oyenda?
Yankho: Kuchokera kwa Dr. Bob Naseef:
Achinyamata akhoza kuyesa ana ndi makolo awo. Chidziwitso cha autism chimaphatikizapo ulendo ndipo chimapangitsa kuti chikhale chovuta, kunena pang'ono. Kuganizira za tsogolo la mahomoni opitirira, monga makolo ambiri m'madera a autism amachita, zingakhale zoopsa kwambiri. Ndikufuna ndikulimbikitseni kuganiza mozama komanso mwachitukuko. Muzochita zathu zamaganizo, pakhala pali mafunso ambiri okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi ana omwe ali ndi autism ndi zosowa zina zapadera omwe akufika msinkhu. Mofulumira mokwanira, monga makolo, timadzimva kuti tili mbali ya dziko loopsya komanso loopsya la achinyamata athu. Gawo lina ndi mwana wathu m'dziko lapansi lomwe liri pangozi kwambiri ngati mwanayo ali ndi zosowa zapadera. Zina mwazowopa ndizo nkhawa yowonongeka komanso kuopseza kugonana komwe kumakhala pakati pa zosowa zapadera.
Chifukwa chachikulu chosalepheretsa kugonana ndi maphunziro a kugonana.
Ana ndi achinyamata omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera ndizogonana monga tonsefe. Kulemekeza ulemu wa mwana aliyense, kuphunzitsa malingaliro abwino ndi kufotokozera, pamene kusunga chitetezo ndi ntchito ya makolo onse komanso aphunzitsi, ndi a zachipatala, kaya ali ndi ubwana kapena ayi.
Pomalizira, pa nkhani ya kugonjetsa, pali chifukwa chodera nkhawa, koma osati mantha. Kafukufuku waposachedwapa wa Autism pambuyo pa Achinyamata; Phunziro la Otsatira Otsatira Akhazikitsidwa Pakati pa 13 mpaka 22: Anthu 120 omwe ali ndi Autism Odziwika mu Ubwana "mu Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders (June 2005) akuti 17% mwa a 108 omwe anafufuza anali ndi tsatanetsatane wouka msinkhu ndipo theka la izi zowomboledwa kuchokera ku vutoli. Kuwonjezera apo, phunziroli linatsimikizira kafukufuku wammbuyo omwe amasonyeza kuti ubwana wa IQ-mgwirizano unali wogwirizana kwambiri ndi zotsatira zabwino pamene munthu wamkulu komanso chitukuko cha chinenero.
Kuchokera pazidziwitso, ndi zomveka kunena kuti mwana ali ndi Asperger syndrome kapena High Functioning Autism angaphunzire kulimbana ndi mayesero ndi masautso akutha msinkhu ndi unyamata. Mwana wanu adzakhala ndi mafunso ambiri, ndi kofunika kuti inu ndi abambo ake muyang'ane zomwe akufuna. Pali nthawi yambiri yophunzitsika pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Zoonadi kwa kholo lozindikira ndi lodziŵa, nthawi zambiri, ana amatiphunzitsa zambiri kapena kuposa momwe timawaphunzitsira. Palibe manyazi pakuphunzitsa kapena kudziyesa tokha kukhala ofanana ndi ntchitoyi. Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mufunsane ndi ana a mwana wanu kuti atumizidwe ngati thandizo lapadera likufunikira kuchokera kwa wodwala matenda a maganizo kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Kuchokera kwa Dr. Cindy Ariel:
Mwana wanu mwachionekere apanga patsogolo kwambiri ndipo mwina mukhoza kuyembekezera zambiri. Kusintha kwakukulu kumachitika panthawi ya kutha msinkhu ndipo kusintha kumeneku kumakhudza khalidwe, kuphatikizapo kumalo kumene mwana wanu wapanga kale zambiri. Mofanana ndi achinyamata onse, mwana wanu akhoza kubwerera m'madera ena ngakhale akupitilizabe kupita patsogolo. Komanso, kusintha kumeneku kungakhale kosadabwitsa komanso kosadziwika.
Kumbukirani, kuti pamene akukula ndikuphunzira ndi kusintha, mwana wanu adzakhalabe yemwe wakhala nthawi zonse. Iye ndi munthu amene amatha kuphunzira ndi kupindula ndi kuphunzira koteroko mwachindunji ndi malire.
Kukwanitsa kwake kuti agwirizane mudzakhala kothandiza kwa iye; Achinyamata ambiri amamva ndi kuchita zinthu mopanda nzeru ndipo mwana wanu akhoza kukwanira pano.
Komanso, mudzakhala ndi mwana wanu tsiku ndi tsiku. Mukhoza kumuthandiza pakugwirizana ndi zomwe zikuchitika ndi iye komanso kumuthandiza kupyola mabala, monga momwe mwakhala mukuchitira zaka 9 zapitazo. Kuchokera kwa abambo ake kapena mtsogoleri wina wamwamuna wodalirika angakhale wofunikira kwambiri pa gawo ili mu moyo wa mnyamata aliyense. Akusowa zambiri zomwe zimagwirizana ndi msinkhu wake. Mwana wanu amafunika kuphunzira za kutha msinkhu komanso kusintha kwa thupi ndi maganizo komwe angapite kuti athe kutenga udindo wina kuti adziwe zomwe zidzamuchitikire ndipo izi zidzamuthandiza.
Achinyamata angakhale nthawi yovuta kwa achinyamata ambiri komanso anthu omwe amawakonda. Yesetsani kuopa mantha anu pa mahomoni a mwana wanu akumuopsya kapena kumupangitsa kumva kuti kusintha kumene akukumana ndi koopsa kapena koipa.
Robert Naseef, Ph.D., ndi Cindy Ariel, Ph.D., ndi olemba a "Voices kuchokera ku Spectrum: Makolo, Agogo, Agogo, Anthu Okhala ndi Autism, ndi Ophunzira Amagawana Nzeru Zawo" (2006).