Kusiyana pakati pa Chisoni Chachibadwa ndi Chovuta
Ngakhale kuti chisoni ndichibadwa mwachibadwa ndi zochitika zowawa pazochitika zowawa, anthu ena amavutika kuti apitirizebe ndi kuyambiranso moyo wawo wamba ngakhale kuti nthawi ikupita. Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza kusiyana pakati pachisoni chachibadwa ndi chovuta pambuyo pa imfa ya wokondedwa, zizindikilo kapena zizoloŵezi za aliyense, ndi momwe angagwirire ndi chisoni chovuta.
Kodi Chisoni N'chiyani?
Chisoni ndi njira yamphamvu, yowonjezereka komanso yosasinthika yomwe anthu amakhala nazo pakutsata zochitika zomwe zimapweteka kapena zowawa . Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri zimakhudzana ndi imfa ya wokondedwa, kubereka kapena kupititsa padera, zochitika zina zambiri zingayambitsenso chisoni ku madigiri osiyanasiyana, monga:
- • Kutaya ntchito
- • Kusintha kwakukulu pa moyo wanu kapena mkhalidwe wachuma
- • Kuthetsa ubwenzi, chibwenzi kapena ukwati
- • Matenda aakulu kapena matenda, kaya akhale anu kapena amakhudza munthu amene mumamukonda
- • Kutaya thupi lanu kapena ufulu wanu
- • Kuba kapena kubala komwe kumaphwanya maganizo anu otetezeka / chitetezo
- • Ngozi ya galimoto kapena chinthu china chofunika kwambiri "pafupi-imfa"
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti chisoni sichiri chimodzimodzi; Ndizochitikira kapena kukhalapo kwadziko komwe kumawonekera mwathupi, m'maganizo, m'maganizo ndi / kapena mwauzimu pakutsatira chochitika chowawa kapena chokhumudwitsa.
Kuwonjezera apo, monga zolemba zathu zazing'ono, aliyense wa ife ndi wapadera komanso momwe timamvera chisoni, komanso kuti timakhala ndi nthawi yaitali bwanji, tikhoza kumasiyana mosiyanasiyana kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake , ngakhale kutsata zofanana, monga imfa ya kholo, bwenzi / mwana, pet, ndi zina zotero.
Izi zikuti, ngakhale kuti aliyense akumva chisoni, pali kusiyana pakati pachisoni chachizolowezi, chosavuta kapena chophweka ndi chisoni chosavuta, chovuta kapena chowopsya.
Kodi Chisoni Chachibadwa N'chiyani?
Chisoni ndi njira yachibadwa, yofunikira komanso yowoneka bwino imene anthu amachitira pazochitika zomwe zimapweteka kapena zowawa. Ngakhale kuti aliyense amakhala ndi chisoni mwa njira yake, opulumuka ambiri amaonetsa zina mwazinthu zotsatirazi panthawi yomwe akulabadira tsiku, masabata kapena miyezi pambuyo pa imfa ya wokondedwa:
- • Misozi, kulira kapena kulira
- • Kusintha kachitidwe kogona, monga kuvutika kugona kapena kuchepa / kugona kwambiri
- • Kulephera mphamvu
- • Kumva kuti ndi ovuta kapena osamvetsetsa za ntchito zofunika tsiku kapena moyo wamba
- • Kusintha kwa chilakolako, monga kusamva ngati kudya kapena kudya kwambiri, makamaka zakudya zopanda thanzi
- • Kuchokera kumayendedwe kawirikawiri / nthawi zonse ndi maubwenzi
- • Kuvuta kuika maganizo kapena kuganizira ntchito, kaya kuntchito, payekha, zokondweretsa, ndi zina zotero.
- • Kufunsa zikhulupiliro za uzimu kapena zachipembedzo, ntchito za ntchito / ntchito kapena zolinga za moyo
- • Kupsya mtima, kudziimba mlandu, kusungulumwa, kupanikizika, kusowa mtendere, chisoni, ndi zina zotero - komabe nthawi zina ndikukumana ndi chimwemwe / chimwemwe
Monga taonera kale, aliyense amadandaula chifukwa cha imfa mwa njira yake yapadera, ndipo palibe nthawi yachisoni. Komabe, chisoni chachikulu chimakhala ndi zochitika zina / mwatsatanetsatane m'masiku omwe akutsatira / masabata pambuyo pa kutayika koma pang'onopang'ono kubwerera ku "zachilendo" m'masabata / miyezi pambuyo pake.
Simudzamuiwala wokondedwa wanu ngati kuti salipo, koma m'kupita kwanthawi mudzaphunziranso momwe mungagwirire ndi kupezeka kwake ndi chilonda pamtima ndi moyo wanu.
Kodi Chisoni Chovuta N'chiyani?
Monga tanenera pamwambapa, chisoni "chachibadwa" chifukwa cha imfa ya wokondedwa chimakhudza anthu olira panthawi yochepa, ndipo ambiri opulumuka amamva kuti chisoni chimakhala chodutsa ndi nthawi ndipo amayamba kuyambiranso ntchito zawo zachilengedwe. Komabe, anthu ena amatha kukhala ndi chisoni chachikulu pamene imfa ya wokondedwa wawo sichitha nthawi ndipo ingathe kuwapangitsa kuti asakhale ndi moyo wathanzi .
Chisoni chovuta chikhoza kutchulidwa ndi mawu ena , monga:
- • chisoni chachikulu
- • chisoni chachikulu
- • vuto lalikulu lachisoni
- • kupweteka kwambiri
- • kumva chisoni
- • kusokonezeka kwachisokonezo chakuferedwa
Ziribe kanthu mawu otchulidwa, maonekedwe a chisoni chophweka angaphatikizepo (kuphatikizapo zizindikiro ziri pamwambapa):
- • Mkwiyo, kukwiya kapena zizindikiro zaukali
- • Kulephera kusamala pa chilichonse koma imfa ya wokondedwa
- • Kuika chidwi kwambiri pa zikukumbutso za wakufa kapena kupeŵa zowakumbutsa zoterezo
- • Kukhumudwa kwakukulu, ululu, asilikali, chisoni, kusowa chiyembekezo, kusowa ulemu, kudzichepetsa, kukhumudwa kapena kulakalaka kukhalapo kwa womwalirayo
- • Mavuto kulandira zenizeni za imfa
- • Kuchita zowononga, monga kumwa mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo
- • Maganizo kapena zochita zofuna kudzipha ( Ngati mukuganiza kuti kudzipha, funsani Malamulo Odziletsa Odzipha Padziko Lonse pa 800-273-8255 kuti akalankhule ndi mlangizi wothandiza !)
Monga tanenera kale, yankho lachisoni lirilonse ndilopadera ndipo palibe nthawi yeniyeni yomwe imatanthawuza pamene chisoni chachikulu chimakhala chisoni chachikulu . Ena amachititsa kuti miyezi isanu ndi umodzi itatha, komabe zimakhala zosavuta kuti anthu akuvutika kuti apeze chaka chotsatira pambuyo pa imfa yovuta kwambiri ngati opulumuka amakhala ndi maholide, masiku okumbukira tsiku, tsiku lobadwa, ndi zina zofunikira tsiku ndi chaka. okondedwa awo.
Ngati mukuwonetsa zina zakumvetsa chisoni kosautsa pamwamba, komabe mumakhala ndi "chisoni" mukumva chisoni kwanu komanso / kapena kuti kuyankha kwanu chisoni kumakhalabe kofanana kapena kwakhala kolimba ngakhale kuti miyezi ingapo kapena yoposa ikupita, ndiye mutha kupeza thandizo kuchokera kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Muyeneranso kuganiziranso gulu lothandizira anthu osowa m'deralo , makamaka ngati alipo kwa anthu omwe adakumana ndi mavuto omwewo (mkazi, bwenzi, mwana, ndi zina zotero) Chisoni chimayambitsa kudzipatula koma kukambirana ndi ena kulira imfa kungakuthandizeni kupeza malingaliro osiyana pa yankho lanu lapadera.
Zomwe Zingatheke / Zingakhale Zosathandiza Kuvuta Chisoni
Pomalizira, malingana ndi zochitika za imfa ndi / kapena umunthu / maubwenzi apadera a anthu omwe akukhudzidwa nawo, mavuto ena akhoza kuchitika omwe mwina - kapena sangathe - amathandizira kuchisoni chovuta kapena kukufunsani ngati mukukumana ndi zovuta chisoni.
Chisoni chosachedwetsa chimaphatikizapo kubwezeretsedwa kwachisoni chodziwika bwino mpaka nthawi ina , kaya mwadzidzidzi kapena mosadziŵa. Nthawi zina, munthu angafunikire "kukhala wolimba" kunja kuti athandize wokondedwa wake kuthana ndi imfa, kaya panthawi ya maliro , ntchito kapena kupembedzera, kapena pakapita masabata / miyezi yotsatira. Nthawi zina, wina sangayambe kulira atangomwalira chifukwa chakuti ali ndi nkhawa yambiri, amafunika nthawi yochulukirapo kuti atayika, sangamve chisoni kufikira atakumana ndi "chisoni chokhumudwitsa," ndi zina zotero.
Chisoni cha disenfranchised chikhoza kuchitika pamene munthu wakulira akumva kuti sangathe kuvomereza kuti ali ndi imfa chifukwa cha zovuta zenizeni kapena zozizwitsa zomwe a m'banja lake / abwenzi ake, zikhulupiliro za chikhalidwe kapena zipembedzo, kapena chikhalidwe chawo. Zowonjezera zingakhale monga, imfa yokhudzana ndi HIV / AIDS, kuperewera kwa amayi kapena kubereka, kapena imfa ya mwamuna kapena mkazi kapena mwamuna kapena mkazi. Pazochitikazi, munthuyo akhoza kuchepetsa yankho lake lachisoni kapena kuwona kuti kuli koyenera kulira yekha / payekha.
Chisoni chikhoza kuchitika pamene imfa ichitika mwaukali, mwadzidzidzi kapena imayambitsa imfa ya munthu "amene amwalira" asanakwane, monga mwana, mwana, wakupha kapena wovulazidwa, wina wodwala matenda, matenda, ndi zina zotero. Kukhumudwa mwadzidzidzi kapena kukhumudwitsa kungachititse kuti anthu azichita zinthu mopitirira muyeso komanso ngakhale atasokonezeka maganizo.
Apanso, nkofunika kutsindika kuti aliyense amene akuchedwa kuchedwa, chisoni chosautsika kapena chokhumudwitsa sichitha kuthana ndi chisoni chovuta . Kawirikawiri, chisoni chimakhala chikusintha chisamaliro chawo mwachizolowezi ngakhale izi zili choncho komanso popanda kutsatira "magawo" a chisoni . Koma ngati mukukaikira, ndiye kuti muyenera kuganizira thandizo la a sayansi ya zamaganizo.
Kusinthidwa ndi kusinthidwa ndi Chris Raymond.