Malangizo okuthandizani kulimbana ndi tchuthi lachiwiri pamene mukulira maliro
Masiku apadera kawirikawiri amachititsa kuti anthu omwe apulumuka amve maganizo ndi zikumbukiro ngakhale kuti nthawi yayitali yatha bwanji imfa ya wokondedwa wawo. Kuchita masewero a tchuthi kapena kukumbukira tsikulo kungatheke chifukwa mumagwirizanitsa tsiku pa kalendala kapena chochitikacho mwiniwake wina, monga wokwatirana, wachibale, kapena mnzanu.
Aliyense amene akulira maliro chifukwa cha imfa, Tsiku la Valentine lingamve kuti ndi lopweteka kwambiri chifukwa limatsindika kugwirizana, chikondi, ndi chikondi.
Komanso, popereka malonda ake otchuka ndi maonekedwe otchuka m'masitolo a mitundu yonse, ndizosatheka kupeĊµa zikumbutso kuti "tchuthi lachiwiri" likuyandikira.
Gwiritsani ntchito malangizo awa kuti akuthandizeni kuthana ndi chisoni chimene mumamva pa Tsiku la Valentine pamene mukuyesera kuthana ndi imfa yanu.
Ikani Malamulo
Kulimbikitsidwa kuti achite mwanjira inayake kumawonjezera masautso osafunikira ndi osafunikira kwa omwe akulira imfa. Ngati mukumva kuti mukufunikira tsiku la Valentine kuti mubise misozi yanu kapena mukhale ndi nkhope yolimba (kapena, osati kuseka kapena kusangalala nthawi zina), ndiye kuti mudzipatse nokha chilolezo kuti mumve chisoni mwanjira yanu. Ngakhale zovuta za anthu-zenizeni kapena zoganiza-kapena lingaliro la magawo onse achisoni , palibe njira yeniyeni yodzilira imfa ya wokondedwa.
Pitirizani Kukhumudwa
Mu 2008, phunziro linafalitsidwa ponena za kukhazikika kwa anthu omwe akukumana ndi zochitika zoopsa, kuphatikizapo kuferedwa.
Olembawo anafotokoza lingaliro la "kuthana ndi choipa," kutanthauza kuti kulimbana sikuyenera kukhala chinthu chokongola-kungofuna kuti ntchitoyo ichitike. Chitani chilichonse chimene mukufunikira kuchita pa holide kuti muthane.
Ikani Papepala (kapena Zolemba ku Chibodibodi)
Kulemba sikuti kumangothandiza kuthetsa nkhawa koma kungakuthandizeninso kukonzekera ndikukonzekera malingaliro anu ndi momwe mumamvera pamene mukulemba.
Kaya mukudziwonetsera nokha kukhala pansi pa kompyuta yanu kapena kugwiritsa ntchito pepala ndi pensulo, kufufuza ndi kujambula zakukhosi kwanu ndi malingaliro anu "maso anu okha" nthawi zambiri amasonyeza chithandizo ndipo amatha kumvetsetsa yankho lanu lachisoni .
Ikani Zakale
Ngati muli omasuka ndi lingaliroli, sankhani memento, chikumbutso, kapena chojambula chofunika kwambiri chomwe mumayanjana kwambiri ndi wakufayo ndipo, kwenikweni, kuikidwira pansi pamsonkhano wapadera womwe mukukonzekera. Kaya izi zikuphatikizapo zithunzi, kalata, matchbook, kukumbukira, kapena kugwirizana kwina kwa wokondedwa wanu, lingaliro pano ndilo kufotokozera mwachikondi kubwezera kwa wakufayo ndi "kusiya" ubale wanu wakale kuti muthe kusuntha patsogolo.
Khalani Valentine Wanu Wanu
Chisoni sichimangotengera chisoni anthu omwe akulira imfa, imatengera thupi limodzi. Kawirikawiri, wofedwayo amamva kutopa chifukwa cha kudya, kusachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena kugona mokwanira. Ngati izi zikulongosola inu, yesetsani kudzikonda nokha pa nthawi ya tchuthi mwa kuonetsetsa zosowa zanu zakuthupi. Ngati simukumverera mokwanira kukonzekera chakudya, ndiye tumizani kapena kupita ku malo odyera omwe mumawakonda. Tengani galu wanu kuti muyende, kapena muitane mnzanu kuti ayende kuzungulira mall ndi inu.
Onaninso ndondomeko zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupeza mpumulo wabwino usiku .
Lemekeza Okondedwa Anu
Kuika chidwi chanu pa njira yopindulitsa yolemekezera ndi kukumbukira wokondedwa wanu kungakuthandizeni kuganizira bwino maganizo anu ndi malingaliro anu panthawi ya tchuthi. Dzifunseni momwe wokondedwa wanu angakondere kukumbukiridwa ndikupangitsa kuti zichitike. Zikhoza kukhala chikumbukiro chakuthupi monga kubzala mtengo pabwalo lanu kapena kupatsa wina ku sukulu kapena mpingo, kuwonjezera kakang'ono ka "Memory Memory ...". Koma pali njira zolemekezera wokondedwa wanu amene safuna ndalama. Mungapereke magazi kapena kuthandizira ndi kuyendetsa magazi, dzipatseni nthawi yanu kuthandiza ena, kapena mukachezere ndikuwerengera anthu ogwira ntchito yosungirako anthu okalamba.
Perekani lingaliro ndipo mudzapeza njira yolemekezera wokondedwa wanu wakufa. Mukhoza kupanga mwambo umenewu wa tsiku la Valentine.
> Zotsatira:
> Bonanno GA, Mancini AD. Ubwino Womwe Munthu Angathe Kulimbana Ndi Zoopsa Zomwe Zingatheke. Matenda . 2008; 121 (2): 369-375. lembani: 10.1542 / peds.2007-1648.