Kuona mnzako akulira imfa ya wokondedwa n'kovuta. Inu simungakhoze kudziwa zomwe munganene kapena kuchita. Mungathe kuopa kunena chinthu cholakwika ndikusankha kuti musalankhule chilichonse. Izi, ndithudi, zimatha kusiya bwenzi lanu kumverera kuti atayika mu nthawi yake yofunikira.
Ndiye kodi munganene kapena kuchita chiyani pamene mnzanu akulira ? Nawa malingaliro omwe angakuthandizeni kuthandizira bwenzi lanu.
Mvetserani
Zimamveka zophweka, sichoncho? Ingomvetsera kwa bwenzi lanu. Koma ndizovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Kumvetsera kumafuna kumvetsera mwatcheru zomwe wina akunena popanda kulankhula. Ndi zachibadwa kuti timve zomwe wina akunena ndikufuna kuti tisokoneze malingaliro athu kapena maganizo athu. Izi si zomwe bwenzi lanu amafunikira.
Bwenzi lanu likungofuna kumva kumvetsera. Adzakhala omasuka kukufotokozerani ngati akumva kuti simudzamuweruza kapena kupereka malangizo anu. Muloleni iye kuti akuuzeni inu maganizo ndi malingaliro ake pamene mukukana kukhumba kumuuza maganizo anu kapena malangizo ake.
Koma bwanji ngati kumvetsera mnzanu kumakupangitsa kuti usamakhumudwe? Kukhumudwa ndi chisoni cha mnzanu kungakhale kovuta ndipo kungakuchititseni mantha anu a imfa. Ngati mumadzimva kuti muli ndi nkhawa, ndibwino kuti mutenge msana. Palinso njira zina zomwe mungathandizire.
Perekani Hug
Kukhudza thupi kungakhale kochiritsira kwambiri. Kupereka mnzanuyo kukukumbatira kapena kungoyika dzanja lanu kumudziwitsa kuti muli naye. Azimayi ambiri amakhala omasuka ndi maubwenzi oterewa kusiyana ndi amuna koma ngati bwenzi lanu ndi mwamuna, kugwira kumbuyo kapena kumbuyo kwake kumakhala ndi zotsatira zofanana.
Anthu ena samasuka ndi kukhudzana kulikonse ndipo ndi zabwino. Zingakhale kuti bwenzi lanu silikumva kuti likukonzekera pano komanso ndiloyenera. Ngati mupereka kukwapula kapena kugwira mofatsa ndipo mnzanuyo akuwutembenuza, musadandaule. Pali njira zina zomwe mungasonyezere kuti mumasamala.
Khalani Pano
Wokondedwa wanu sangamve kuti akukonzekera kulankhula ndipo sangakonde kukumbatiridwa. Angathe kukhala yekha ndi chisoni chake kwa kanthawi ndipo ndizo zabwino. Ngati ndi choncho, kungokhalapo ndikwanira. Muloleni iye adziwe kuti ndi bwino ngati sakufuna kulankhula pakalipano koma kuti mudzakhala komweko ngati atatero.
Thandizo Lothandiza Kwambiri
Simungathe kunena kapena kuchita chilichonse kuti muchepetse chisoni cha mzanu koma mungamuthandize m'njira zabwino. Malingaliro ena omwe angayamikire:
- Konzani gulu la anthu kuti abwere naye chakudya cha banja
- Penyani ana ake madzulo kapena muthamangitse ma carpool
- Sankhani zina mwa ntchito zake kuntchito kwa kanthawi
- Mubweretseni kugula kwake
Mwa kuthetsa mavuto ena a moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, mudzakhala mukupereka mnzanu mphatso ya nthawi.
Mudzisunge
Ngati bwenzi lanu lataya wokondedwa wawo, dziko lawo lonse lasintha. Ayenera kukhala okhoza kuwerengera zinthu zochepa zomwe sizinasinthe, monga ubwenzi wanu.
Mutha kuyesedwa kuti muyende mozungulira mnzanu, kuchepetsa kusangalatsa kwanu kapena kupewa nkhani zina. Musasinthe chifukwa mukuganiza kuti ndi zomwe akusowa kapena amafuna. Pitirizani kukhala nokha ndipo ngati mnzanuyo akumvera, pitirizani kuchita zinthu zomwe mumakonda kuchita pamodzi.
Kumbukirani kuti chisoni chimachepa patapita nthawi koma sichitha. Chidutswa cha bwenzi lanu chimasinthidwa kosatha koma ubwenzi wanu ukhoza kupitilirabe. Kumupatsa nthawi yanu ndi mphamvu ndi mphatso yomwe iye adzakhale akuyamikira nthawi zonse.