Ngakhale kuti mawu sangathe kufotokoza kwathunthu momwe munthu amatanthawuzira kwa ife, chinenero chingathe kupereka chitonthozo, chitonthozo, chiyembekezo komanso ngakhale kudzoza pambuyo pa imfa ya wokondedwa. Pano mungapeze mndandanda wa zolemba zomwe mumasankha komanso zonena za chisoni chomwe chimabwera chifukwa cha imfa ya mnzanu.
Momwe Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Momwe Mungathere Musataye Bwenzi
Mukatayika bwenzi labwino, mungapeze nokha kutaya mawu.
Kodi mungathe bwanji kufotokoza zomwe ziri mu mtima mwanu? Nthawi zina ngati izi, kukhala ndi ndemanga zingakhale zothandiza kwambiri. Mungapeze izi pogwiritsira ntchito kulembera kalatayi kapena kulemba kalata, makamaka ngati mukuvutika kupeza mawu abwino ndikusowa kudzoza.
Panthawi zina, ndondomeko zochokera pamabuku angakupatseni mawu omwe amasonyeza mtima wanu pokambirana ndi okondedwa anu. Mwachitsanzo, pogwiritsa ntchito ndemanga yochokera kwa John Taylor yomwe ili pansipa, mungathe kumuuza wokondedwa wanu yemwe akufunsa kuti mulira, koma kuti mukusangalala kuti mudzakumananso naye kumbuyo kwa chophimba.
Pomalizira, kuyang'ana pamagwero angakuthandizeni mukumva chisoni kwanu, mwa kupereka mawu kumverera mu mtima mwanu.
Zolemba Zotsitsimula pa Imfa ya Bwenzi
Aliyense ndi wosiyana, ndipo ndemanga yomwe imatsimikiziridwa kukhala yofunikira kwa imodzi, ingakhale yina. Chifukwa chake, timagawana ndemanga zingapo kuchokera kwa anthu omwe afotokozera momwe amamvera akamataya bwenzi lawo.
Aristophanes , wojambula achigiriki
Mabwenzi anu otayika sali akufa, koma apita; adakwera pamsewu kapena awiri pamsewu umene muyenera kuyendamo.
John Taylor , ndale wa ku America ndi senator
Pamene tikulirira imfa ya mnzathu, ena akusangalala ndikukumana naye kumbuyo kwa chophimba.
Edward Young , wolemba ndakatulo waku England
Koma kukonzedweratu kumadzetsa abwenzi okondeka omwe ayenera kugawana nawo.
Richard Bach , wolemba wa ku America
Kodi mailosi akulekanitsani inu ndi abwenzi ... Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, simunayambe mulipo?
Arthur Schopenhauer , wafilosofi wa ku Germany
Kupweteka kwakukulu kumene kumamveka pa imfa ya munthu aliyense wochezeka kumabwera kuchokera kumalingaliro akuti pali munthu aliyense yemwe sadziŵika bwino, wodabwitsa kwa iye yekha, ndipo, chotero, ali atasokonezeka mwamtheradi.
Mwala wa Stone Temple , gulu la miyala ya ku America
Ngati mungafe pamaso panga, funsani ngati mutha kubweretsa bwenzi.
Mwambi wa Chijeremani
Imfa ya mnzako ikufanana ndi kutayika kwa chiwalo.
Mlembi samadziwika
Zimatenga mphindi kuti mupeze munthu wapadera, ola limodzi kuti muwayamikire, ndi tsiku kuti muwakonde, koma zimatenga nthawi yonse ya moyo kuti muiwale.
Henri JM Nouwen , wolemba Dutch ndi wansembe wa Katolika
Pamene tikudzifunsa moona mtima kuti ndi ndani yemwe ali mmoyo mwathu, amatanthauza kuti ndi omwe, mmalo mopereka uphungu, njira zothetsera mavuto, kapena osachiritsika, tasankha kugawira ululu wathu ndikukhudza mabala athu ndi kutentha ndi chifundo. Mzanga yemwe angakhale chete ndi ife mu mphindi yachisoni kapena chisokonezo, ndani angakhale ndi ife mu ora lachisoni ndi imfa, yemwe angakhoze kulekerera kusadziwa, osachiza, osati kuchiritsa ndi kuyanjana nafe zenizeni za kupanda mphamvu kwathu, ameneyo ndi bwenzi yemwe amasamala.
Jean Antoine Petit-Senn , wolemba ndakatulo wa ku France-Swiss
Mabwenzi athu ali amoyo, timaona makhalidwe abwino omwe alibe; akufa, timakumbukira okha omwe adali nawo.
John Gay , wolemba ndakatulo wa Chingerezi, ndi wojambula
Ndikhululukireni, ndiye! inu mukudziwa mtima wanga
Koma abwenzi okondeka, tsoka! ayenera kugawa
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry , wolemba French, ndi ndakatulo
Pa tsiku lakuikidwa m'manda mulibe lingaliro - pakuti malo omwewo akuwonongedwa. Mnzanu wakufa akadali zogawanitsa. Tsiku limene mumamuika ndi tsiku la ntchito ndi makamu, manja abodza kapena oona kuti agwedezeke, pa zosamalidwa zachisoni. Mnzanu wakufa sadzafera mpaka mawa, pamene bata liri ponseponse.
Ndiye iye adzadziwonetsera yekha wangwiro, monga iye anali_kuti adzikhalitse yekha, monga iye analiri, kuchokera kwa iwe waukulu. Pomwepo mudzafuula chifukwa cha iye amene akuchoka komanso amene simungamuletse.
Robert Southey , wolemba Chingerezi, ndi ndakatulo
Palibe kutalika kwa malo kapena kutha kwa nthawi kungachepetse ubale wa iwo amene akulimbikitsana.
Homer , wolemba ndakatulo wachi Greek
Kuvuta sikuli kwakukulu kufa kwa bwenzi, pofuna kupeza bwenzi loyenera kufa.
Steven Wright , wamatsitsi wa ku America
Ndinali ndi mnzanga yemwe anali wovuta. Atamwalira, abwenzi ake onse anapita ku maliro m'galimoto imodzi.
Richard Bach , wolemba wa ku America
Musadandaule ndi a goodbyes. Kupatukana n'kofunika musanayambe kukumana. Ndipo kukumananso, pambuyo pa nthawi kapena moyo, ndizowona kwa omwe ali abwenzi.
Charles Caleb Colton , wolemba mabuku wa Chingerezi, ndi mtsogoleri wachipembedzo
Ubwenzi weniweni uli ngati thanzi labwino; kufunika kwake sikudziwika kawirikawiri mpaka kutayika.
Henry Fielding , wolemba mabuku wa Chingerezi, ndi wojambula
Kutalika kwa nthawi ndi malo nthawi zambiri kumachiza zomwe zikuwoneka kuti zikukulirakulira; ndipo kuchoka kwa anzathu akufanana ndi kuchoka kwa dziko, zomwe zanenedwa, kuti si imfa, koma kufa, komwe kuli koopsa.
St. John Cassian , Monk Mkhristu
Mgwirizano pakati pa abwenzi sangathe kusweka mwadzidzidzi; palibe nthawi kapena malo omwe angathe kuwononga. Ngakhalenso imfa yokha ingathe kugawana anzanu enieni.
Harold Kushner , rabi wa ku America, ndi wolemba
Nthawi zina zovuta kwambiri pamoyo wanga, anthu ena amene ndimaganiza kuti ndi mabwenzi anandisiya-ena chifukwa amandikonda ine ndipo amawapweteka kuti andione ndikuvutika; ena chifukwa ine ndinawakumbutsa okha zachiswe chawo, ndipo izo zinali zochuluka kuposa zomwe iwo akanakhoza kuzigwira. Koma abwenzi enieni anagonjetsa mavuto awo ndipo anadza kudzakhala nane. Ngati iwo sakanakhala ndi mawu oti andipangitse kukhala omasuka, ankakhala chete (bwino kuposa kunena kuti, "Mudzapitirira," kapena "Sizoipa, ena amaipira") ndipo ndimakonda nawo.
Washington Irving , wolemba wa ku America
Kukoma ndi kukumbukira anzanu apatali! Monga mvula yowonongeka ya dzuwa lochoka, ilo limagwera mwachifundo, komabe mwachisoni, pamtima.
William Penn , wokonzanso Chingerezi ndi woyambitsa Pennsylvania
Imfa imangopita kudutsa dziko lonse lapansi, ngati abwenzi akumadzi; iwo amakhala mwa wina ndi mzake. Pakuti iwo ayenera kukhala alipo, chikondi chimenecho ndi kukhala mu zomwe ziri paliponse. Mu galasi laumulungu ili, iwo amaonana maso ndi maso, ndipo kukambirana kwawo ndi mfulu komanso koyera. Ichi ndi chitonthozo cha abwenzi, kuti ngakhale anganene kuti amafa, komabe chiyanjano chawo ndi chikhalidwe chawo, zili bwino kwambiri, chifukwa chosakhoza kufa.
Zolemba Pamunsi pa Zophatikiza Za Kutayika kwa Bwenzi
Chisoni chimene chimachitika ndi imfa ya mnzathu wodalirika ndi kovuta kufotokoza m'mawu. Nthaŵi zambiri mabwenzi athu ndi amasiku athu, ndipo kutayika sikuyimira imfa ya wokondedwa wathu yekha, koma imfa yathu. Kutaya munthu yemwe angakhale wofanana ndi msinkhu kungayambitse mafunso omwe alipo ponena za imfa omwe angaoneke ngati ofunika pamene wokondedwa wachikulire amwalira. Lolani nokha nthawi yomwe zimatengera kuti musamve chisoni mnzako kokha, koma kuti muyang'ane ndi mafunso omwe imfa yake ikhoza kubweretsa.
Chisoni chimatenga nthawi, ndipo palibe njira yabwino yodandaula. Ife tonse tamva za magawo achisoni, koma magawo awa si njira yeniyeni. M'malo mwake, mungadzipezeke pamsinkhu wosiyana tsiku lililonse, kapena ola lililonse. Khalani okoma mtima kwa inu nokha ndikudzipachika nokha pamene mukuchiritsa.
Kugawana ndemanga m'njira yowonekera, monga mu chikhalidwe, ndi njira yomwe mungalemekezere bwenzi lanu. Kuwerenga mawu mu chinsinsi kungakuthandizeni pamene mukuyenda mu magawo otayika, pamene mukuyesera kumvetsera zomwe mtima wanu ukuyankhula.
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