Chifukwa Chimene Dokotala Wanu Angakukondeni Inu
Pali zifukwa zochepa zomwe zimachititsa madokotala kuti asafune kuchiza wodwalayo. Zina zimachokera ku khalidwe la wodwalayo, pamene zina zimachokera ku zodetsa za dokotala. Nthawi zambiri zimapangitsa kukana chithandizo chamankhwala - kukana wodwalayo komanso kusamalira chisamaliro chimene wodwalayo akuchifuna.
Madandaulo otsatirawa adatchulidwa pa kafukufuku wosafukufuku wa odziwa zaumoyo oposa khumi ndi awiri:
- Odwala ena ndi ovuta kapena osokoneza. Amakhala achipongwe kwa antchito. Iwo akhoza kukhala okwiya, ndipo moyenera chotero, chifukwa cha zochitika zammbuyomu mwina ndi dokotala yemweyo kapena wina. Ena amakwiya kwambiri, kupanga zovuta kapena zosatheka kulankhulana. Zina zimakhala zosasangalatsa kapena zamwano, ngakhale sizithupi zomwe zimayambitsa khalidwelo.
- Odwala ena amatsutsa milandu. Ngakhale kuti milandu ina ndi yolondola komanso yosakondera, ena sali oyenera. Zingakhale zosasangalatsa, zotsatiridwa ndi kutsatiridwa ndi alamulo. Simungathe kumuimba dokotala chifukwa chosafuna kuchiza wodwalayo yemwe nthawi zonse amatsutsa.
- Odwala ena amaika udindo wawo kwa madokotala awo. Dokotala amalimbikitsa wodwala wodwala kuti apepetse thupi ndi kumudwalitsa shuga. Iye satero. Ndiye amabwereza mobwerezabwereza mankhwala ena kapena opaleshoni yamondo kapena mankhwala ena ndipo amakhumudwa pamene dokotala sangathe kukonzekera zinthu. Amatsutsa dokotala wake chifukwa cholephera kusintha koma sakuchita chilichonse kuti adzithandize yekha.
- Madokotala ena amakhumudwa kwambiri. Iwo sangathe kuthetsa vutoli kapena kupeza chithandizo chomwe chimagwira ntchito bwino kwa wodwalayo, ndipo safunanso kuchiza wodwalayo chifukwa cha kukhumudwa. Ngakhale kudandaula uku kuli chonchi kwa dokotala kusiyana ndi wodwalayo, mwinamwake wodwalayo amakhumudwa chifukwa chakuti adokotala sakulephera kugwira ntchito yake, nayenso. Zimenezi zingachititse kuti wodwalayo achite zinthu mopitirira malire, akuyatsa moto.
- Odwala ena amafuna madokotala kuti asamapereke mankhwala kapena kuwalamula. Fanizo losavuta ndi dokotala yemwe amakana kuchotsa mimba kapena amene samakhulupirira (kapena amakhala mu boma lomwe sililoleza) kudzipha wothandizira wodwala . Koma izi zimachitika kawirikawiri pamene wodwalayo akufuna kuti adzidwe mankhwala omwe adokotala sakukhulupirira kuti ali ndi chidwi chake.
- Odwala omwe amasonkhana kawirikawiri m'zipinda zam'derali akhoza kutembenuzidwa kapena kutsekedwa m'maganizo mwanjira ina. Sizitchulidwa kuti " maulendo obwera kawirikawiri " chifukwa amapitiliza kuwonetsa mu ER, koma samatsata malangizo omwe aperekedwa kuti azisamalira okha pambuyo pake.
- Madokotala ena sangavomereze ma inshulansi kapena mapulogalamu a boma monga malipiro. M'madera ena, izi ndizoletsedwa.
- Kusintha kwa posachedwa kwa inshuwaransi kungakhale chifukwa cha vuto, mwina chifukwa chasintha makampani a inshuwalansi, kapena chifukwa chakuti ubale wanu ndi kampani yanu ya inshuwalansi yasintha. Wothandizira inshuwalansi angakhale atachepetsa kuchepetsa kubwezera kwa dokotala wanu. Pankhaniyi, vutoli likukuwonetsani, ngakhale kuti mulibe chochita ndi vutoli.
- Odwala ena sapereka ngongole zawo zachipatala , komabe amadabwa pamene dokotala sakufuna kuti azikhala nawo nthawi ina. Tangoganizani abwana akukana kupereka malipiro kwa antchito kwa maola omwe wogwira ntchito amagwira ntchito yake. Ndi momwe madokotala akumvera pamene iwo salipidwa chifukwa cha ntchito yawo, naponso.
- Nthaŵi zina madokotala amakana kuwona odwala chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro chakuti matenda salipo. Odwala amene amapezeka kuti ali ndi matenda monga kutopa kosatha amakanidwa ndi madokotala omwe sakhulupirira kuti izi ndizo "zenizeni" zowunikira.
- Madokotala ena samafuna kugwira ntchito ndi odwala amphamvu - izi ndizosautsa, chifukwa ndi lingaliro labwino kukhala wodwala wodziwa bwino komanso wokhutira. Odwala ndi madokotala ayenera kuphunzira kuyankhulana ndikugwirizanitsa kuti akule ubale wamphamvu ndi wothandizira odwala.
Pakati pa gulu la akatswiri omwe adayankha funso ili, adatchulidwa mavuto ena a matenda a m'maganizo, koma adatsindika kuti ndizochepa.
Pansi
Odwala amafunika kudziwa zifukwa zomwe dokotala angawakane kuti akusamalira. Kuzindikira za makhalidwe athu kumatithandiza kuyamba njira zothetsera ubale ndi madotolo athu komanso kutipatsa mwayi wabwino wopezera chisamaliro chomwe tikusowa.