5 malingaliro othandizira ofedwayo kuthana ndi holide ya Tsiku la Thanksgiving
Tsiku loyamikira limatha kumvetsa chisoni kwambiri anthu omwe akulira imfa ya wokondedwa wawo. Sikuti kokha munthu amene anamwalira angakumane ndi zovuta kuti amve kuyamikira pa nthawi yapadera yapadera yowathokoza, koma miyambo, miyambo, ndi misonkhano yomwe timayanjananso ndi tchuthiyi imayesetsanso kutsimikizira kuti wokondedwa wanu kapena bwenzi salipo ndipo kuphatikiza maganizo athu otayika.
Nkhaniyi ikupereka malangizo asanu kuti akuthandizeni kulimbana ndi tsiku lochita zikondwerero za Tsiku loyamikira ngati muli ndi chisoni cha imfa ya wokondedwa wanu.
Dziloleni nokha kuti Ayi
Kwa zaka zambiri, inu ndi banja lanu mukuyembekezera kusonkhana kunyumba kwanu pa Tsiku lakuthokoza. Koma chaka chino, lingaliro lochita malonda onse, kuphika ndi Turkey ndi ma trimmings onse, kuyika tebulo ndi kukongoletsa nyumba yanu yonse mumadzimva nokha. Kapena mwinamwake mwakhala mukupereka chakudya ku chakudya chochitidwa ndi wachibale wina kapena mnzanu, koma chaka chino mtima wanu suli mmenemo. Pamene lingaliro lakusintha ndondomeko yanu ya tchuthi ya Thanksgiving ingakhale yovuta, muyenera kudziwa udindo umene mumakhala nawo bwino pakalipano ndikufotokozera momveka bwino izi kwa achibale anu ndi abwenzi anu. Dzifunseni nokha ngati mukungofuna kuthandizidwa ndi ntchito inayake kapena ngati mukufuna kuti wina ayambe kugwira ntchitoyi chaka chino.
Dzikumbutseni kuti ndi bwino kunena "ayi" pamene mumasintha moyo wanu mutayika komanso kuti omwe amakukondani amvetse.
Zilekeni zikhale
Ambiri a ife timakhala ndi chithunzithunzi cha zomwe tchuthi loyamikira zikondwerero liyenera kuoneka. Mabuku, magazini, mafilimu, malonda a pailesi yakanema komanso ngakhale kukumbukira kwathu kwaubwana nthawi zambiri zimapangitsa kuti izi zitheke pokhazikitsa chithunzi cha phwando la "Thanksgiving Day" lakuthokoza.
Izi zingachititse kuti mukhale ndi mavuto ambiri, omwe ndi vuto lina lomwe simukufunikira kulimbana nalo pakalipano. Choncho, dzipatseni Phunziro loyamika lovomerezeka mwa kuvomereza zinthu monga momwe ziliri , ngakhale kuti silingathe kufotokoza chithunzi cha Norman Rockwell mumutu mwanu. Kodi Turkey yayimirira chaka chino? Onjezerani zina. Kodi simungakhoze kuyesa mphamvu kuti mupeze chakudya chamadzulo chokhala patebulo? Konzani buffet ndi kulola anthu kuti azitumikira okha. Chilichonse chimene chikubwerapo, dzifunseni nokha: "Ingozisiya." Apanso, iwo amene amakukondani adzamvetsa.
Pewani Kuopa Kwanu
Kawirikawiri, iwo akulira maliro a imfa, "Ndingapewe bwanji kuganizira za iye pa holide ya Thanksgiving?" Chowonadi ndi chakuti simungathe - choncho bwanji kuyesa? M'malo molola mantha kuti muyambe kukumbukira wokondedwa wanu ndikumva chisoni ndikulamula kuti tchuthi lanu lidzipatse mphamvu , muzipatsa mphamvu kukukumbutsani zomwe mukuchita . Mwachitsanzo, ikani chithunzi chokonda cha wokondedwa wanu ndipo yatsala kandulo pamalo otetezeka omwe amasonyeza kukhalapo kwake m'mitima yanu tsiku lonse. Kodi wokondedwa wanu amasangalala ndi chakudya china cha tchuthi? Kenaka onetsetsani kuti mulimbikitseni. Ngati mukumvera, funsani banja lanu kuti lifotokoze zomwe mumakonda kukumbukira wokondedwa wanu musanayambe kudya.
Si zachilendo kuti mabanja akhazikitse wokondedwa wawo patebulo - mpando wopanda kanthu ukuwonetseratu kukumbukira kwa kukhala wokondedwa wanu m'mitima ndi m'maganizo mwanu. Pambuyo pa chakudya (kuganiza kuti tryptophan mu Turkey sikunakupangitseni kugona), mukhoza kupita ku manda, malo achikumbukiro kapena malo ena ofunika kwambiri m'moyo wa wokondedwa wanu monga banja.
Yambani Mwatsopano
Miyambo yayamiko yomwe timapanga ndi achibale athu ndi abwenzi athu m'zaka zambiri nthawi zambiri timangomva ngati ndende. Kuphika phwando lapadera lakuthokoza tsiku loyambira, kudzuka m'mawa / kutuluka mochedwa kukagula Lachisanu Lachisanu, kuyika magetsi ndi zokongoletsera, ndi zina zotero, zikhoza kusakanikirana ndi zokondwerero zanu zosangalatsa kwambiri, koma dzifunseni nokha ngati mwambo winawake Zimakupatsani chimwemwe chaka chino kapena ngati mumangokakamizidwa kuti muchite chinachake chifukwa nthawizonse mumachita izi ndipo ena amayembekezera.
Ngati otsogolerawo, pempherani kukhazikitsa mwambo watsopano - kwa chaka chino - zomwe zikugwirizana ndi mphamvu zanu ndi maganizo anu . Taganizirani kugula pie watsopano kapena wamazira chaka chino, kugula mphatso pa intaneti, kapena kufunsa wachibale kapena mnzanu kuti aike magetsi ndi zokongoletsa. Kumbukirani, mutha kuyambiranso mwambo wanu wakale mumsewu ngati mukufuna, koma mutha kuzindikira kuti mwambo watsopano umakwaniritsidwanso.
Dziwani Malire Anu
Potsiriza, ndipo mwinanso chofunikira kwambiri, ngakhale mutasankha kukondwerera Tsiku la Thanksgiving chaka chino, muyenera kudziwa ndi kudziwa malire anu pasanapite nthawi . Mwachitsanzo, ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito tsiku lonse pakhomo la wachibale kapena mnzanu koma musaganize kuti mudzamvetsetsa chaka chino, ndiye kuti ndizovomerezeka kuti muuze yemwe akuyang'anira / wothandizira kuti adziwe zomwe mukufuna kuchoka pa nthawi inayake. Ngati nthawi zambiri mumalandira maitanidwe angapo kuti mupite ku zikondwerero za zikondwerero za mamembala osiyanasiyana, abwenzi, oyandikana nawo, ndi zina zotero, koma musaganize kuti mudzakhala ndi mphamvu zokwanira kwa iwo onse chaka chino, yambani - makamaka misonkhano yomwe mukuganiza kuti mudzasangalalira mukumva chisoni ndikupatsidwa chithandizo. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kuchepetsa zochitika zanu chifukwa choti mukufuna kukhala nokha, dziwani kuti izi ndi zachilendo. Apanso, aliyense amene amakukondani komanso amadziwa ululu umene mukukumana nawo amamvetsa.
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