Bwalo la chikumbutso limakongoletsa dera lanu pamene mukulemekeza wokondedwa wanu
Zaka 20 zapitazo, chiwerengero cha njira zomwe mungakumbukire wokondedwa wanu wakufayo chawonjezeka kwambiri. Osakhalanso ndi mwala wapamutu kapena chizindikiro pakati pamanda, kukula komweko kwa mankhwala ndi ntchito zomwe zilipo masiku ano zimapangitsa kuti zisakhale zosavuta kusankha msonkho woyenera komanso wowoneka. Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza mmene mungakhazikitsire bwalo lachikumbutso pamalo ovomerezeka kuti mulemekeze wokondedwa wanu.
"Adopt-Bench" ku Central Park
Kodi mukudziwa kuti Central Park ku New York City, New York, ili ndi mabungwe oposa 9,000? Tsiku ndi tsiku, pakiyi ya alendo okwana 38 miliyoni pachaka amasiya kupuma pa mabenchiwa ndipo mwina amaganizira za kukongola kwa mtengo winawake kapena kasupe wa madzi, kapena amangodabwa ndi kupezeka kwa mtengo wa "emerald" wamakilomita 843 mu mtima. wa mzinda wamapiri.
Ambiri omwe sangazindikire, komabe, kuti mabenchi oposa 2,000 amanyamula miyala yochepa yokhala ndi zilembo zojambulajambula, kutanthauza kuti wina "watenga" benchi - nthawi zambiri kukumbukira wokondedwa wake wakufa. Malingana ndi Central Park Conservancy, bungwe loyang'anira ntchito yosungirako malowa, chikwangwani chimodzi chimakhala ndi mawu okondeka awa: "Ndilo Lui Pour Moi, Moi Pour Lui, Dans La Vie" ( Mu moyo, alipo iye yekha , ndi ine kwa iye ). Ena amanyamula maonekedwe a "Chikumbukiro cha ..." ndi dzina la wakufayo ndi tsiku la kubadwa ndi imfa.
Ngati njira iyi yolemekezera wokondedwa ikukulimbikitsani, ndiye mungadabwe kumva kuti mapulogalamu a bench ofotokoza ofanana ndi Central Park a "Adopt-Ben-opportunity" alipo mdziko lonse lapansi - mwinamwake ngakhale kumudzi wanu .
Kupeza Mapulogalamu
Pali njira zingapo zopezera pulogalamu yamakono yomwe ilipo pafupi ndi iwe.
Chophweka ndi kungowona benchi yotero ndikufunsanso za izo. Mungapeze mabenchi awa mumzinda kapena boma park, pafupi ndi mabasi, chifukwa cha zipatala kapena zipatala zina, kunja kwa bizinesi, ndi zina.
Ngati simungathe kupeza benchi yomwe ilipo pamalo amodzi, fufuzani pa intaneti pa "mabenchi a chikumbutso ku XYZ " ndipo mutengere XYZ ndi "park city" kapena "state park" kapena dzina la mzinda wanu. (Kufunafuna "mabenchi achikumbutso" kawirikawiri amasonyeza opanga ambiri kuti atsimikizire.)
Ngati izi zikulephera, funsani kunyumba yamanda kapena kumanda kwanu ndikufunsani mafunsowo. Kawirikawiri, malondawa amakhala ndi mndandanda wa kukumbukira zofunikira ndi mwayi wopereka malangizo kwa banja ngati n'koyenera. Mukhozanso kulankhulana ndi olemba benchi ya chikumbutso kuti mupereke malingaliro, komabe mungalandire malonda a malonda awo.
Ngati simungathe kupeza pulogalamu yamakono a chikumbutso, musataye mtima! M'nthawi ino kuchepa kwa chuma ndi kuyimitsa bajeti, maboma ambiri, mabungwe ndi mabungwe ena nthawi zambiri amavomereza ngati mumapereka kupereka benchi kuti mugwiritsire ntchito malo ochitira anthu, kapena kukongoletsa malo. Ndipo ndani akudziwa - zopereka zanu zingangotitsimikizira kuti ndizofunika kwambiri kukhazikitsira pulogalamu yamakonzedwe a chikumbutso, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kwa ena mtsogolo.
Mtengo
Mitengo ya zikumbutso za chikumbutso imasiyanasiyana kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mumzinda wa Central Park mumzinda wa Central Park, ndalama zokwana madola 7,500 zimakhala zokwanira kuti "atenge" benchi yomwe ilipo, ndi $ 25,000 kuti apange benchi yatsopano kumalo osankhidwawo. Ku Los Angeles, California, malo osungirako paki, kuwonjezerapo chipika cholembera ku benchi chomwe chilipo ndalama zokwana madola 1,000, pomwe $ 3,000 akuphatikizapo benchi yatsopano komanso kusankha komwe mungapeze m'dera limodzi la malo oposa 400.
Poyerekeza, mzinda wa Scottsdale, Arizona, umapereka ndalama zambiri: $ 1,300, woperekayo amalandira benchi yatsopano ya paki yokhala ndi chipika chopangidwa ndi bronze, kukonzekera malo ndi penti ya konkire, kuika ndi kusamalira moyo wa benchi.
Izi ndi zitsanzo zochepa chabe, koma muyenera kuyembekezera kulipira kulikonse kuchokera ku madola mazana angapo kuti "mutenge" benchi yomwe ilipo, kufikira zikwi zambiri kuti iike bwalo lamakono lachikumbutso. Mosasamala kanthu komwe mumaganiza kuti muchite ndi komwe kuli, kukhazikitsa bwalo la chikumbutso pamalo ovomerezeka kulemekeza wokondedwa wanu ndi msonkho wopindulitsa umene inu - komanso ambiri, anthu ambiri - mudzasangalala nawo zaka zikubwerazi.
> Zosowa
> "Adopt-Ben-ben" ndi Elyse Newhouse, Jennifer Rich ndi Phyllis Cerf Wagner. www.centralparknyc.org . Inayambanso June 24, 2013. http://www.centralparknyc.org/donate/honor-someone-special/adopt-a-bench.html
> "FAQ." www.centralparknyc.org . Inapezedwa pa June 24, 2013. http://www.centralparknyc.org/visit/general-info/faq/
> "Thandizani-Bench." www.laparksfoundation.org . Inapezedwa pa June 24, 2013. https://secure.laparksfoundation.org/EN/donation1.html?typed=bench
> "Zikondwerero za Bench ndi Tree." www.scottsdaleaz.gov . Inapezedwa pa June 24, 2013. http://www.scottsdaleaz.gov/parks/memorial
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