Momwe Mungasankhire Ngati Mukusintha Madokotala
Anthu ena omwe ali ndi mwayi adakhazikitsa ubale wathanzi ndi madokotala awo. Iwo adziwa madokotala awo bwino, pali kulemekezana ndi kukhulupirirana, ndipo sangaganize kuti akusintha madokotala . Anthu ena sali ndi mwayi. Nthawi zina, chisankho chosintha madokotala chimayesedwa ndi mphamvu zowonjezera mmalo mochita kusankha yekha.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe mungalingalire kusintha madokotala:
- Inu ndi banja lanu mukusamukira ku malo atsopano omwe ali kutali kwambiri ndi dokotala wanu wamakono.
- Kampani yanu ya inshuwalansi sagwirizana ndi dokotala wanu wamakono. Ichi ndi chifukwa chachikulu chothandizira makampani a inshuwalansi monga kusintha madokotala. Ngati wokhutira ndi chisamaliro cha adokotala, mungasankhe kubwereza inshuwalansi m'malo mwa kusintha.
- Zosankha za moyo wanu zimakukakamizani kuti musinthe. Kukwatirana ndikusankha inshuwalansi ya umoyo wanu watsopano, kapena kusudzulana ndi mnzanuyo kungakufuneni kupeza dokotala watsopano.
- Chizolowezi cha dokotala wanu chimatseka, kapena dokotala wanu akusuntha zochita zake. Madokotala amachoka pantchito, akusintha ntchito, amasiya zilolezo zawo, amatsutsa inshuwalansi ya inshuwalansi , ndipo amatha kupita, kukakamiza odwala kuti apeze njira ina.
- Sizimveka kuti madokotala "adzawotcha" wodwalayo . Nthawi zina mgwirizano ndi wovuta kwambiri kuti dokotala kapena wodwalayo asakhutire nazo. Dokotala akhoza kukhala woyamba kupeza vuto mu chiyanjano, ndipo mukhoza kukhala opanda dokotala.
- Muli ndi vuto lachipatala lomwe limafuna lingaliro lachiwiri . Pankhaniyi, simungasinthe madokotala; Mukungofuna dokotala wina kuti muyang'ane bwino matenda anu.
- Mukufika pozindikira kuti "zabwino" ndi "njira yabwino yogona pambali" sizingakhale zofanana. Mwina simungathe kusintha, koma mukumverera kuti mungasamalire bwino kwina kulikonse.
- Mumakhala ndi maganizo osokonezeka ochokera kwa dokotala. Zingakhale zovuta kufotokozera, koma ngati dokotala amakupangitsani kumva kuti simukumva bwino, khulupirirani kuti mumamva bwino ndikusintha. Kuchokera ku vuto lakumwa mowa mopitirira muyeso mpaka kusakhoza kuletsa mkwiyo ku zizolowezi zoipa, mavuto a ukhondo - simungathe ngakhale kufotokoza vuto, koma zirizonse zomwe ziri, sizikuwoneka bwino kwa inu.
- Mumamva kuti dokotala wina amalankhulana bwino, amakulemekezani kwambiri, kapena akuthandizana naye bwino. Ichi ndi chifukwa chabwino ngati aliyense ofuna dokotala watsopano . Kukhulupirirana ndi kulemekezana ndizofunikira pakati pa dokotala ndi wodwala. Kuchokera kusasamala zolinga zanu bwino, kugwiritsa ntchito kuganiza-kulankhula, kulephera kupereka zotsatira za mayesero kapena mayankho ena, odwala akhoza kukhumudwa ndi mavuto olankhulana. Ndizifukwa zambiri zosinthira madotolo.
Komano, ngati mukuganiza zopanga kusintha, musasankhe mofatsa. Inu ndi dokotala wanu mwakhala mukugwirizanitsa mgwirizano, ndipo kusintha koteroko sikudzakhala kophweka kwa aliyense wa inu. Nthawi, mapepala ndi zofunikira zidzafunika kuthetsedwa.
Mutasankha kuti kusintha madokotala ndi chinthu choyenera kuchita, mukufuna kutsata malangizowo poonetsetsa kuti kusinthako kumagwira ntchito bwino.
Ndi nzeru kukhazikitsa ubale watsopano mwa kusintha kusanachitike mwadzidzidzi kapena vuto lalikulu la thanzi.