Kusamalira kholo lolemala kungabweretse mavuto omwe ana akuluakulu samakonzekera nthawi zonse, monga kutenga ndalama, kusintha mabala, kapena kukonzekera kusamalirako kunyumba yosungirako okalamba . Nthaŵi zina, ana omwe amathandiza kusamalira kholo lolemala ali ndi zaka zoposa 18. Zingakhale zovuta, koma zambiri zomwe zimapezeka m'deralo zidzathandiza omwe akupempha thandizo.
Mavuto kwa Ana Kusamalira Olemala
Imodzi mwa mavuto omwe akuluakulu akukumana nawo akukonzekera okha pantchito yawo pomwe akusamalira kholo lolemala. Kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama za makolo anu ndikusankha komwe akuyenera kukhala kungakhale kovuta. Nthawi zina makolo anu amafuna kuti azikhala okhaokha ndipo safuna kuti mutenge nawo.
Kusankha kuyika kholo ku nyumba yosungirako anthu okalamba, ngakhale kwa kanthawi, kungachititse kudzimva kukhala wolakwa ndikupanikizika komanso kumayambitsa vuto lanu.
Ana a makolo omwe ali olumala angakumane ndi zovuta kutsatizana ndi kusintha kwakukulu kumene kumachitika mmoyo wawo. Ngati ndinu wamng'ono komanso mumakonda amayi anu kapena abambo anu akusamalira inu , kusintha kwanu kungakhale kosokoneza kwambiri. Mayi anga sangathe kudya chakudya, kapena bambo sangathe kusewera panja panja. Kusintha kumeneku mu miyoyo ya banja kungabweretse mkwiyo, kusungulumwa, ndi kukhumudwa.
Odwala amtundu wathanzi nthawi zambiri amatha kuyendetsa bwino kwambiri.
Komabe, ana achikulire-makamaka achinyamata-akhoza kudabwa ndi kholo lolemala mwa kukhala okonzeka kusintha ndikukhala ndi maudindo ena. Ubwenzi pakati pa kholo ndi mwana ukhoza kukhala wamphamvu chifukwa cha anthu awiri omwe amadalira wina ndi mnzake.
Makolo ayenera kupeŵa kulemetsa kwambiri ana omwe sangakhale okalamba kuti amvetsetse "mavuto akuluakulu." Ngakhale zili zoyenera kufotokoza mbali zina za kulemala, monga chidziwitso chofunikira pa matenda anu kapena kuvulala, chidziwitso chochuluka chingakhale zovuta kwa mwana kapena munthu wamkulu.
Ngati n'kotheka, kholo lolemala liyenera kufunafuna thandizo lachilendo kunja kwa achikulire, mwina kuchokera kwa abwenzi kapena achibale, kotero iwo sangawakhumudwitse ana awo ndi udindo wosamalira kholo lolemala.
Mmene Mungapezere Thandizo
Pezani thandizo ngati mukusowa thandizo posamalira kholo lolemala. Mipingo yopereka chithandizo kwa osamalira ndi awa:
- Mabungwe achipembedzo
- Mapulogalamu othandizira kuchipatala ndi magulu othandizira
- Magulu othandizira operekedwa kudzera m'mabungwe osiyanasiyana ndi maziko a zolemala kapena zochitika zachipatala
- Mtsinje wa United States
- Bungwe la Disabled American Veterans
- Magulu othandizira azimayi monga a Wounded Warrior Project
- Maofesi a zitukuko, omwe angakuthandizeni kupeza mabungwe othandizira
- United Way
- Malo othandizira uphungu, kuphatikizapo alangizi ku sukulu zapamwamba kuti azisamalira achinyamata
Ngati mukuyamba kukhumudwa kusamalira kholo lolemala, musazengereze kupempha chithandizo kuchokera ku magwero awa.
Amaphunzitsidwa ndi akatswiri othandiza omwe ali okonzeka, okonzeka komanso otha kuthandiza mabanja omwe akusowa thandizo kapenanso pothandizira kusamalira munthu wolemala.