Mmodzi mwa inu akanatha kutenga kachilombo musanalowe chibwenzi
Nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kudziwa kuti muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana (STD). Komabe, pozindikira kuti muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana mukwatirana kapena mukakhala ndi nthawi yaitali, mchitidwe wodzipereka ukhoza kukhala wowopsa kwambiri.
Sikuti mukuyenera kuthana ndi matendawa, mumayenera kuthana ndi zochitika zenizeni kuti mkazi wanu, mwamuna wanu kapena mnzanuyo akhoza kukhala ndi chibwenzi.
Kawirikawiri kukhala ndi nkhawa za zotsatira za kusakhulupirika. Komabe, matenda opatsirana pogonana sikutanthauza kuti mnzanu kapena mnzanuyo wasochera.
Njira Yoyamba Yoyenera
Muyenera kudzifunsa nokha ngati mwakhala odalirika pa kuyang'ana kwanu kwa STD ndipo mwalankhula ndi mnzanuyo za kuyesedwa. Ngati sichoncho, zingakhale zovuta kudziwa yemwe adakulandilani ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kapena pamene zinachitika. Zingakhale zosawoneka pamene mwakhala mukuyesedwa nthawi zonse pa STD.
Ngati mwapezeka ndi kachilombo koyambitsa matenda ogonana ndi mnzanu yemwe sanayambe kuyesedwa zaka zambiri, simudziwa kuti ali ndi kachilomboka. Nthawi zonse nthawi zina amakhala ndi kachilombo ka HIV nthawi yaitali musanafike palimodzi ndipo iwo sakudziwa.
Ngakhale pamene mukugonana ndi munthu amene ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, simungatenge kachilombo koyamba mukagona limodzi. Matenda angatenge miyezi kapena zaka.
Izi ndizowona makamaka ngati mutachita nawo chiwerewere.
Mliri Wochedwa
Magaziniyi imabwera nthawi zambiri pamene munthu ali ndi vuto loyamba la chiberekero kukwatira. Kulingalira kwawo koyamba kawirikawiri kumakhala kuti ali ndi bwenzi lomenyera. Izi zikhoza kukhala zoona. N'zotheka kuti iwo adatenga kachilombo kwa zaka zambiri koma sanazindikire.
Si zachilendo kuti anthu asadziwe kuti ali ndi kachilomboka mpaka chinachake chitasintha mthupi lawo. Ndipamene iwo ali ndi zizindikiro zawo zoyambirira zomwe zimadziwika ndipo izi zikhoza kukhala zaka zotsatira.
Zinthu zofanana zikhoza kuchitika pamene mkazi wokwatiwa amapezeka ndi matenda opatsirana , omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi matenda omwe amapezeka ngati chlamydia ndi gonorrhea. Mayi angaganize kuti mwamunayo ayenera kuti adalandira "mkazi wina." Komabe, pokhapokha atayang'aniridwa bwinobwino, n'zotheka kuti anali atanyamula zovuta zomwe asanakhale nazo.
Ndi Nthawi Yoyesedwa
Ndiye muyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mutapeza kuti muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana mukakhala paubwenzi wa nthawi yaitali ndi mnzanu wapamtima? Chinthu choyamba ndi chofunika kwambiri ndi kupempha mnzanuyo kuti ayesedwe. Izi zidzakuthandizani nonse kupeza chithandizo .
Ndiye, ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV komweko -ndipo chifukwa chothandizira-muyenera kukhala pansi ndikuyankhula.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti ngati inu nonse musayesedwe musanagone, zingakhale zovuta kudziwa yemwe ali ndi kachilombo koyamba. Zingakhale zosatheka kudziwa nthawi yomwe matendawa adachitika. Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri kukhalapo kwa zizindikiro kumasonyeza kuti pali vuto lomwe laposachedwapa, pali kusiyana kwa izi.
Panalibe Chibwenzi
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mnzanu akutsutsa kuti alibe chibwenzi ndi kuti palibe winayo? Njira yokha yomwe muli nayo ndiyo kudalira mtima wanu komanso zachibadwa. Ndiwe amene akuyenera kusankha momwe mukufuna kupita patsogolo.
Kugonana Kwatetezeka M'chibwenzi Chokhalitsa
Kumbukirani kuti pali njira zodzizitetezera ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi mnzako koma musamakhulupirire konse. Nthawi zonse kugonana kosasamala ndi njira yoyenera ndipo sizowonongeka. Makondomu sangakhale olephera, koma kuwagwiritsa ntchito kungakupatseni mtendere wamumtima.
Nthaŵi zina mumalingaliro a chikhalidwe cha America kuti makondomu ndi chinachake chimene "mumadutsa" pamene ubale wanu ukupita patsogolo.
Komabe, palibe kwenikweni chifukwa choti izo zikhale zoona.
Amuna ambiri okwatirana amagwiritsa ntchito makondomu moyo wa banja lawo. Amagwiritsira ntchito njira zonse zothandizira kulera komanso kuteteza matenda. Iwo samaganizira za iwo ngati chinachake chimene iwo potsiriza amayamba kusanyalanyaza. Mukapanda kutero, nthawi zambiri kondomu imagwiritsa ntchito sizinthu zazikulu.
Mawu Ochokera
Mukapeza kuti muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, nkhaniyo ingakhale yovuta. Zinthu zofunika kwambiri kukumbukira ndi kuti inu nonse muyenera kuyesedwa komanso kuti muyambe kukambirana moona mtima ndi mnzanuyo.
Kufika pamaganizo sikungathetse vutoli. Yesetsani kukumbukira kuti simudziwa yemwe ali ndi kachilombo koyambirira komanso pamene, makamaka ngati simunayesedwe nthawi zonse. Pamene ena angapereke uphungu, ndizomwe mumasankha kuti ubale wanu umachokera kuno.